Nobody is casting you as anything but what your words tell us, Shambs. I do not think of you as a homophobe. I just wish you would get rid of those damn rose-coloured glasses and reread my posts and the others for what they really say.

You give two choices of worlds, the first of which is possible in a limited way only. Nothing is so black and white when it comes to such issues in the real world.

You just don't want to or aren't getting it. Give it a rest, as we will never see eye to eye and we'll probably both muddle along regardless.

kat