I have a brother-in-law in eastern Canada who is a provincial judge, now retired. A guy who kept showing up in his court was a flasher, perpetually getting hauled in for exposing himself. My brother-in-law, the judge, tried giving him time, sending him for counselling, everything he could think of, but nothing seemed to work. Exasperated with seeing him again for the umpteenth time, he said without thinking, "Good God, man! Get a grip on yourself!!"