I'm curious about this, I thought I knew what a friend was, but then suddenly things change, why do we humans always mess things up unintentionally, (normally with the male species that is) by just been honest, obviously honestly is a problem I seem to have.

Just have to live with it I suppose!! Not going to change the way I am, not for anyone, well unless he really is 'special' and there aren't many 'special' ones around.