There are couples who thrive on antagonism, those who take years to get to know each other. Some just know immediately. There ain't no one size fits all, Guest, but if the talking is good then the signs are too. The problem I have with non visual communication and it is usual according to the folks I have spoken with is the other 70 (or is it 80?)% of the communication. It is not that without it things are doomed but they can throw-up some mighty wierd surprises in the flesh, as it were.

Enjoy the moment PAL.