Not going to change the way I am, not for anyone, well unless he really is 'special' and there aren't many 'special' ones around.

So, rock chick, you would change if the circumstances were right? Even your honesty? You say above, honestly (sic) is a problem I seem to have.

Seems to me that honesty is a problem for many people. And as I posted above, on 6th January:
We could have a long talk about this, rock chic! I think openness and honesty are necessary for a true friendship- but not everyone can cope with that....