Deda- I hate to sound like a stickler for detail... but I am one, so here goes.

Judge not lest ye be judged is not a commandment to make your way through life without forming opinions. It actually commands adherants to the Christian faith to behave in the way God would have us (in other words, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" The Golden Rule and "Beloved, let us love one another. For love is of God and everyone that loveth is born of God and knoweth God. He that loveth not, knoweth not God for God is love." 1 John 4:7-8)

Leaving aside entirely the subject that this thread is based upon... I just wanted to point out the fact that "Judge not lest ye be judged" is quite frequently inaccurately used.