It has been quite a few years since mine were small and nursing, but I could practically feel the let down when she cried. Her mother's voice was always very calm--best advice I ever had from a total stranger was when my oldest was three days old and in for her first doctor's checkup. A woman passing by admired her, then commented "A calm mother has a calm child." So Lili Ani is already on her way to a mellow childhood!