Harpgirl. Please don't let the lonely words of a crying cyber fool shape your involvement with the 'cat... The tiny shred of truth GUEST provides is already common knowledge to most of us, and the rest is good for a laugh...

But you are something special, Harpgirl, and I want you around... Please don't be shy in reaction to a silly dude dancing around a public forum... I for one am glad and refreshed by the fact that such civility as we often find here can exist outside the galvanised fence of the country club... ttr