In reading Mantid's sad news about the loss of a grandchild,and the once again wonderful outpouring of caring from the people here, I thought of how kind you were to me when I lost my daughter. You don't know how much your responses meant to me at that time. And I was a relative stranger, but your caring soothed my heart as it always does at times like these. Thanks again. Though I've never meant any of you I feel you all are friends. James