I can have visitors without being asked, "Is/Are this/these your new friend(s) now?" Stray musicians from pub gigs really pissed her off. Someone might arrive and join a session, or start one, and she would freak. Of course, she used to freak when the regulars would arrive with guitars and fiddles and whistles. Come to think of it, she just use to freak. Why did I have to file ?