Sinsull, what a trade-off! I must be very lucky in that two my cats are well-behaved and my ex is also.

Brett, you saw the inconsistency in your last remark yourself. Why attribute interest in sex as different measures in men and women? "Need" versus "Like." Both sexes need and like companionship, which can be accomplished in any number of ways. Both sexes can live without sex, and (baring a long discussion of early programming and/or abuse) both genders need and like sex. It isn't always available with a partner. Once you understand that "sex" and "partner" aren't mutually inclusive, you move into a zone where living alone is okay. And that's why places like Good Vibrations do a thriving business. (You might want to visit the Antique Vibrator Museum. Keep this place in mind next time you move through the small personal appliance section of your local department or electronics store.)

SRS