I know I digress ... but I can draw a comparison here. Bride Judy and I have a constant "SCRABBLE" game going on our dining table. It's fun, we keep score, and we're very serious (in a fun way) about it. Yet, at some point, one MUST have one ultimate bible, one totally correct referee. We use the latest version of the "Scrabble Dictionary." But ... occasionally, we both dissagree with that bible ... cheat ... but only by mutual agreement ... when we feel the dictionary is just flat wrong. What's my point, you may ask? My point is simply this ... there are sing-a-longs, and song circles, and gatherings, and hoots! And as someone said quite well, "Ain't music fun?" Make it work. It can work, because music is far to important to allow it not to work. CHEERS, Bob