Thanks Ken.

My dilemma is this. The thread asks for the greatest thing I have done. I have a fine son, and a wonderful husband. I made the same commitment to my son when he was born as khandu did with his son, for very similar reasons. And I fulfilled that commitment, and in that, I also have peace. And that is the greatest thing I have done.

But I also, like my wonderful hubby, Jack the Sailor, promised to "Love Honour and Cherish", knowing that in every way, with all of my being, I meant it. And that is the greatest thing I have done.