The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #57400   Message #904529
Posted By: khandu
06-Mar-03 - 12:44 AM
Thread Name: BS: The Greatest Thing Youve Done
Subject: RE: BS: The Greatest Thing Youve Done
I guess another "great thing" I did was forgiving my brother.

He and I went into business together (bad idea!!). In three months time, we were not speaking. I actually moved out-of-state, partly to keep from having to see his face.

Four years passed,and on a trip through Mississippi, circumstances caused me to spend most of the day with him. We talked and made amends. I forgave; he forgave.

A month later, he died as a fire-fighter in the line of duty.

I consider the day we were together a gift of God. Had he died without the two of us removing the bitterness, I would have greived forever.

I realized that the things which gave us such negative feelings meant nothing when compared to not having him around.

As much as lies within you, try to live in peace with your fellow humans- especially those who are close to you.

Ken