Beccy, I have not suggested that you are any sort of an ogre. I was simply telling you that I don't understand the practice of making fun of people, and I don't find it amusing.
I guess the litmus test of whether humor about other people is amusing to me or not is whether or not it belittles them or is done disparagingly. I'm not in a position to tell you whether or not you are doing those things when you do whatever it is that you find amusing. Only you can make that determination. And only you can determine whether or not it's ok to do that according to your value system.