Thanks for the suggestions. I can't possibly fit another regular lesson and daily practice into my schedule (or budget) right now; nor am I trying to be a great singer. The choir is just fun stuff, but I don't want to hurt myself doing it. In the past I've just skipped over notes I couldn't reach (unless practicing), but there's so many of those high notes in the I don't think I can skip 'em all. I'd at least like to try. Alice's coach may be the way to go.

Individual coaching from the conductor isn't going to happen; I've already tried. Admittedly, she has bigger problems than me to work on :)