Khandu, I knew there were a lot of reasons why I liked you. :-)

That is something I have been trying to explain to my mother and grandmother for years. They think if a person is to be a Christian, they have to go to worship in the church; and because I choose not to worship in a church, I must not be a Christian and I'll probably go to hell.

For me it isn't about Church. It's about that personal relationship, like you said.