Soldiers and civilians alike are people who are loved by their mother's father's and children. There is no difference. Don't try to dehumanise people. the only difference is the the people of Iraq have been invaded by a powerful bullying dishonest hostile country that wants to take control of it for it's own selfish ( big buisiness) reasons.
You would fight for your own life too. Bush and his corproate mates are the ones that need to be incinerated.