Well, Joe, it may be "casual", but it's never "free" imo. I guess we get what we "pay" for, one way or another.

How old is she? I may be stickin my neck out here, but I think women's attitudes change as they get older? Younger women tend to want committment, in preparation for raising a family, but over time they tend to value their freedom more (especially if their committments nearly got them "committed" in the past).

But that's just my experience talking - any other observations?

daylia