Firecat,
I learned the rhymne as:
One for sorrow
Two for mirth
Three's a wedding*
Four's a birth
Five is il'er
Six is gold
Seven's a tale ne'er to be told
Eight is Heaven
Nine is Hell
Ten is the De'il in his own sel'
(I've also heard "Three's a Funeral...")
Just my two penn'orth.
Walrus