Apparently, you are on the way, er, underway, perhaps, from your last post... "wish me luck, I'm goin' in! " (which could be your last post.) I hope all works out for you with the rest of the relationship as well. Just remember that no matter what you and she discussed regarding the nature of this relationship, she may soon have the right to have you thrown in jail or to remove you from half (or more, much more) of your assests.