Hmmmm, "you can give em to others". Well, I'd debate that but this is gettin to be real Shakey territory ...

OKay, here goes anyway ... I think that the primary organ of sexual pleasure is the brain, not the more southerly areas. If the brain's otherwise engaged, or blocking response, no amount of external diddling will make a difference.

Maybe that's where the saying "f*** your brains out" originated!

daylia