the things you miss when you leave town for 4 days....*grin*...I guess I won't bother to insert MY comments....except that my first reaction to the thread was that there is a BIG difference between casual sex and anonymous sex...if you are likely to see each other again...or regularly...it affects the decision a lot!

Me, I worked out a rule a LONG time ago....never have sex with anyone that you would not like being around if you were NOT having sex with them.