It always amazes me when someone is nasty on a leisure and info forum. Why the hell anything should get that personal and heated heaven knows. The lady in question's got a lot of people on her side though and that should make her feel better.

I remember going to a dinner party once where a bloke launched the most ghastly personal attack on me and my partner. It led on from the subject of music and his partner and the people at the party were very distressed but just couldn't shut him up. I am afraid I got very weak and wobbly because that sort of thing hasn't happened to me since schooldays and I didn't know how to cope. But the plus side is that we made some very loyal friends that night....
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