Folk who arrive at what is obviously a participatory tune session and still insist on singing a song (or more than one song) - making the wrong assumption that they are the only ones present capable or willing to do this - thus turning everyone else present into an automatic and (usually) appreciative audience - whilst then reserving the right to get upset - should anyone then play their instruments to accompany the song - and then having done their bit - just talk over the tunes through the rest of the evening without taking any notice or showing any appreciation - or just leave - to do the same thing somewhere else.

You did ask *Smiles*