Peg, if all your post is true then you are one mixed up girl. As screwed up as a football bat. Did you grow up defiant as lots of those of you north of the Virginia border do? Did you hate your family enough to drive you to "mix it up" (sounds like you did it more than once) with those other than Italians (who usually are very close and protective of children)? Decisions made in youth stick with us. Memories stay close at hand. Watch yourself girl, you may close doors that never open again.

This is not TROLLING!

Just curious, how did you end up (no pun intended) and who with...