I'm saying that if she was... I doubt you would appreciate the way her story is being handled. But obviously it's easier for you all to just believe every negative thing you're told. It's so EASY to believe there must be a gag order ---- sure, that's why we don't know the whole story. Right! Of course. The Evil Empire and their Gag Orders.

Sometimes it is hard to know who's telling the truth and who isn't; it's difficult to separate myth from fact.

Put yourself in her shoes. Put yourself in her family's shoes.