..all this sensible advice, but love isn't a realm where caution and common sense apply. If that were the case, anyone - which is everyone - who'd ever gotten burned at love would never fall in love again. But stupidly, over and over again, against our better judgement, we do.

So I'm going to go against the flow and say be suicidal in love. When it beckons from the precipice, jump off...gladly. Throw your heart out there with reckless abandon, knowing full well that the odds are against you that this time it won't end up a hopeless catastrophe. Love is the only game where you can make all the right moves and still lose; where knowing what you're doing is absolutely no help at all. Love is like looking into the eyes of God.