Well Ms Lemon, me and The woman of uncertainty took the plunge, the feelings were so strong that when we did meet up, all it did was confirm what we already knew, and then some!! Dealing with pre-existing relationships has been, and is still, a messy and painfull business, the real hurt being for the 3rd parties involved, but when you find the love of your life, you dont give up on it. Was it worth it? You bet!! I am happier than I have ever been in my life (and she says the same), and we cant wait for things to get finally sorted so we can be together, full time. Boy! will that be a party!!