Ah, PJ...I do appreciate those words...indeed, my technique..(or lack thereof..*grin*) has ensured that what relationships I have had with women were lasting and friendly...(sure, I missed a few 'opportunities' of sorts, but some of those non-events have turned into very nice friendships)...I know, some guys..(and girls!) have also enjoyed life in a different format and still been nice, decent people...I just do it my way...