In my mind's eye, I'm 5'10" and lithsome, with smooth, straight, shiny blonde hair in a perfect bob, with legs that go to my armpits. In reality, I'm (ok, here goes!) 5'no inches, zaftig (yiddish for bosomy), with dark, coarse, curly that I keep about 1/2"-long in this North Florida humidity, and legs that go nowhere. I told my "last" boyfriend that when I died I wanted to come back with high cheekbones and long legs with thighs that didn't touch at the top. His response was "Great! Radar (he called me Radar because of my ESP), you're going to come back as a f-kg (his word) camel." I guess it's another case of "Be careful what you wish for, you might get it." ... moonchild