I have met several people who I did not were Mudcatters until afterwards. I assume many of us have had that experience. I also assume I have met Mudcatters who I don't yet know are Mudcatters. And as far as I know, I've only slept with two. But does it really count as sleeping if all you do is have sex and then go home without staying the night? It's still only two. Both married. Neither to me.