Her response to Bill and Rapaire is,"I do what I damned well please, and if anyone doesn't like it, FUCK THEM!!"--at least some of the time. At other times, she says it was stupid and that she won't do it again. As I said above, the family just found out, but others, including her banker, knew about this before and tried to talk her out of it, she got around them.

Kat's suggestion is being followed up--thing is, she apparently keeps things from her doctor, so family members are going with her to fill in--as I just mentioned, she occasionally gets very diffident and curses, which she has only started to do since she started watching "The Sopranos", mostly, and to most people, she seems the same as ever-