"...in another country..." - sounds like there might be a misunderstanding between you based on the different way people in different ciuntyries go about reading between the lines;on top of teh different way people of different genders go about reading between the lines.

So stop trying to read between the lines and work out what she's thinking, and expecting her to understand what you really mean and all that. Tell her you're a clumsy oaf and ask her to forgive you, and thank her for being so generous.