The woman loves YOU, she just gave you the shirt off her back because she wants YOU, not your stupid pride. If you truly love her then tell her the truth. You are stupid, ignorant, self centered and have as much insight into the workings of the female mind as ................well, the rest of us males.
Be a man, give help when you can, be big enough to accept it (with good grace), when you need it, it all ballances out in the end. And yes, anything other than face to face communication is frought with perrils. You never get all the message. Good luck, I hope you both sort this out and can get back to the task in hand, getting TOGETHER!!