My wonderful "Bride Judy" got her vocal paranoia from her CHILDREN! That's backwards. We're supposed to be intimidated by our elders, not our youngsters! By the time I met her, fell in love (still am), and married her, there was not enough money in the world to get her to sing at a hoot. Yet, I occasionally hear her humming, or singing lightly when she thinks she's alone, and I am totally charmed. (did I mention that I'm still in love?) Go figure?