I had just left the army 4 months previous with the "I'm never going to settle down attitude no one will ever get me" as you do.
I went on my offshore medics course and for some reason I sat next to this lassie it was just a seat to me at the time.Then we started talking and I discovered that she was more than just a lassie she was the lassie. So during the fag breaks we would chat and I just knew that she was the one.We went out for the end of course piss up and her friend came along and I suppose looking back now her friend was trying to trap off with me but I just blanked her as my now fiancee was the only one that I wanted to be with ever.There was no other person who I wanted to be with. There was just that click of I dont know how to describe it but the knowing that you just get like all your ideas and images come into view but only when you think of this one person. Thats all I can say really.
When I started working again after a long lay off the relationship just kept on getting better and better. Now we are engaged to be married next year and to be honest no one else could have done what Lynsey has for me.
So to sum up I think that from the first time we clapped eyes on each other would have been when I knew. I still kid her on that she looked at me with love in her eyes from the first time she saw me funnily enough it was me from the first moment I saw her but she doesnt know that as its my wee secret
Dylan