Well, LH, in some ways it is like the movies. Sometimes you just know. When Brian asked my dad, he said "Ask her mother". Mom was beating chocolate cake batter and turned around w/o turning off the mixer (cake batter all over everywhere) and said "YES! It's about time". I swear, my parents loved him more than I do.

But, the movies don't show the hard times, sometimes for months or years on end that require a true committment to each other and the kids, if any. We've had some terrible fights but nobody EVER has hit anybody else or ever moved out. We both have gone for some long drives though.