WyoWoman, I do think I understood what your intent was. I was responding, primarily, to Kat when she suggested music to do "it" to. Actually, I cannot ever recall, when I did it, that I ever did it to music. I must have done it because we have three kids (two of them very good musicians which has nothing I suspect with the conceiving of them). Ravel's Bolero, in the Classical music field, has always been touted, however, as the music to do "it" to, and my attempt at humor fell short. Humble apologies.

Kat, you mentioned Rex Allen. What a voice! Do you know the song he did back in the early 50's that was, I think, the best he ever did, "No One Will Ever Know," which fits this thread very well?

DougR