Hi, Jenny,

This whole things stinks; I'm so sorry you need to go through it! It sounds as if you are thinking, though, & getting some good advice. Even if most of us can't be there in person to help you out, you know that your Mudcat family cares. Those who are clear-headed enough can even think of some things that we, the embroiled ones, aren't up to. Breathe deeply during that time when you're away from the Internet &, if possible, check in from a library or a friend's house. The 2 weeks I was off the Internet was hard for me. You'll be in my thoughts & prayers, dear. And it sounds as if things can only improve!

love,

Barbara