oh, my poor catspaw..so very neglected!..ok, here you go 'spaw(so how many words is this worth?)(I'd send the kind of nekkid pics you REALLY want, but...*sigh*)
(and, from a book on Kierkegaard I used many years ago comes this gem..(the author said his prof. used to quote it to explain how reading Kierkegaard's prose made him feel)
"If a man were to signify, which he were not, if he had the power, which, being denied him, he were to endeavor anyhow, merely because he don't, would you?"