Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Doris & Mylee, Kings Arms Date: 14 May 07 - 04:44 AM So sorry to hear of the loss of a lovely man, people are right......it's always the good ones that go first, why, I'll never know. Everyone at the pub was shocked and saddened to hear the news. Our thoughts are with you and all the family at this extremely difficult time. Love to you all. Doris & Mylee xxxx |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Dead Horse Date: 14 May 07 - 05:45 AM He is probably jamming with Lonnie Donnigan while a skinny Elvis is learning the new words to Jailhouse Rock. I always wished I knew Pete back at Farningham and in the 60's folk clubs. He will be sorely missed for so many reasons. Ken. |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Jacqui & Chalky (Bishop Gundulf) Date: 14 May 07 - 06:56 AM My dear Val, Jacqui & were shattered when Richard told us the news, we all loved Pete. He was such a kind, humorous man and a giant of a musician, not bad at the beer consumption either. It just won't seem the same, the big man leaves a big gap. At the stand on Saturday we all did it for Pete and the Wedding Party loved it. All our love and strength to you and your family Jacqui & Chalky |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Graham & Josie Date: 14 May 07 - 11:27 AM Dear Val & family Josie and I were so sorry to hear about Pete, he was a really good friend good fun and inspired us all, I will never forget St Trinian's at Broadstairs, we will never forget Pete, I'd like to think that a little bit of Pete has rubbed off on us all. See you soon Lots of Love Graham & Josie |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Tony and Sue (Urwin) Bishop Gundulfs Morris Date: 14 May 07 - 11:27 AM We got the news while out in Cuba, thanks Gill and Kevin for keeping us informed. Just want to say we are both devastated at the news. We feel we have lost one of the family. We both had a few rum and cokes last night in honour of Pete's memory our very special friend. Our thoughts are with Val and the family at the moment, sending you our deepest condolences. Val, big hugs when you get back. Tony and Sue XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Tony Lewis Date: 14 May 07 - 12:47 PM Dear Val and family We are so shocked. We will always remember him for his warmth and humour. Our thoughts are with you. Tony and Sue Lewis |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: The Sandman Date: 14 May 07 - 03:22 PM I remember turning up at Farningham with a guitar I could never tune, it was Pete, who told me it was a left handed guitar, strung right handed [which was why I couldnt tune the thing]. But Pete was so helpful,and had a way of putting it, that didnt make me feel like an Idiot.,he was very approachable,and he ran a great club.Dick Miles |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: crab Date: 14 May 07 - 03:28 PM Helen and I add our sense of sorrow. Such an umassuming man, he really did not seem to know how good a musician he was. I produced that Crayfolk Live At Farningham LP and sent Pete some 1969 recordings I did of the Crayfolk at The Railway in Dartford not long ago. These recordings have given us years of pleasure and always will. Pete's unaccompanied singing of Spencer the Rover is a wonder, an absolute treasure. A good man, memories of good times. crab (initials are crb) |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Irish Broadstairs Date: 14 May 07 - 03:45 PM Val thinking of you at this very sad time. Will miss the old bugger greatly, Broadstairs will never be the same. |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,DizzyLisa Date: 14 May 07 - 08:30 PM 'Aint that a fact... I'm really going to miss his knobbly knees in the mornings. Imagine you're now going through complete hell Val, after holding it all together. Thinking of you and sending lots and lots of love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Kellie The ship Upnor Date: 15 May 07 - 08:10 AM Dear Val Heard the sad news of Pete's passing and all us old lot down the ship would just like say to how sorry we are for your loss and that our thoughts are with you and Pete's family at such at difficult time. Sarah says she cant wait for the puppies to come home as the place has not been the same without you. Chin up and god bless Pete. Love Kellie xxx |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Muttley Date: 15 May 07 - 08:59 AM Have followed the thread - and not having known Pete personally - have abstained except to offer small comfort at the beginning. Was saddened to read the 'Obit' prefix today as I thought he was through and brething unaided. My thoughts and prayers to his family and friends both on the 'Cat and elsewhere; I feel lessened not to have known Pete as if even a tenth of the plaudits to him I have read are true - he was one hell of a person. Don't mean to sound trite, but God can always use a good singer / player / dancer - it's a shame we have to lose them to achieve it. God rest Pete and God bless those who survive and love him Muttley (JohnW) Australia |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Ted (Triality) Date: 15 May 07 - 10:33 AM Dear Val So very sorry and sad to here about Pete, he will be very greatly missed, an end of an era !! no more Slattery !! wow what great evenings are remembered. You are in our thoughts With all our love Ted, Charlie and Dave (Triality) x x x |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Dilligaf Date: 15 May 07 - 05:50 PM Hi love to one and all, Thank you for all the great tributes you have paid Pete, I will be flying home with Pete on thursday night,and will be collecting all the hugs I am owed. When Pete is safely back in England then Charlie, Tamsin and myself can start to make definate plans for his send off. As soon as we have everything in place I will let you all know what is happening. YES muttley Pete was one of the best (as a totally biased person) I have to say he could bring a smile to everybody, you laughed with him because he enjoyed his self whether singing, playing, dancing or just being him, he had no reverence for man nor beast and treated everybody as an equal. Hell I miss the deaf old git. but was very lucky to have shared part of his life. looking forward to being back with you all, despite the fact it was 84 out here today with clear blue skys. love and Big hugs Val,Dilligaf |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Guest :Michelle from Canada Date: 15 May 07 - 08:07 PM I am so saddened to hear of the loss of Uncle Pete. While I can't admit to having all of the same memories that my brother has, I do share some of them- Gypsy and Rastus-2 of the most beautiful dogs I have ever seen. I play back in my mind Uncle Pete saying my name and there was no-one else who said my name that way. I always felt like I special little girl when I was with him. It was also thanks to him, that I got my 1st girl cousin (no offence Mark, Adrian and Scott)! I wish I could remember more about the house in Crayford- my only memory is falling down the step and cutting my lip! I loved it that Pete and Val brought Nan out to Canada to see us, it was a nice visit. Val, Charlie and Tam- I would still love for you to come out some time. I can imagine how hard it is for you now and our thoughts are with you all. Please take care of yourselves. All our love, Michelle and Chris |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Kev The Clogs Date: 15 May 07 - 08:31 PM Hi Val, well - we did it! We went to the Plough and Harrow tonight - The Men wore loud Hawaiian shirts (Pete would have like that I think!!) They all danced long and hard and then we went and sang some great songs for him!! We all look forward to you being back in UK - you're certainly getting a huge hug from me when I see you!! Safe return Val - Gundulf are with you in spirit, if not in body! Take care Kev (((((xxxx)))) |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Richard Bridge Date: 16 May 07 - 04:39 AM I gather several people have now complimented Mike on his arse or asked to check it. Have I started something? |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Larisa Kings Arms Date: 16 May 07 - 05:01 AM Dear Val, I cannot imagine the heartache you and Pete's family are going through. Pete was a wonderful man with an excellent sense of humour. Just thinking of our christmas party and what he did to me over the table makes me smile (although still a bit embarrassed)! I think of all the things that you and Pete to help us and i am truely grateful. I wish in some way i could repay you both but i am not sure what i could do to help except be a friend in a time of need. My love and thoughts are with you and the girls, Rissy xxxxx |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Mike - Gundulf Date: 16 May 07 - 05:59 AM Re my arse, I don't see it myself. No complaints from Gill tho, the chief recipient of Pete's succinct observation. I will miss his wit but cherish the mad impromptu jamming with Blossom and others after our Morris stands. He'll be missed but fondly remembered. Mike |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Tams Date: 16 May 07 - 09:04 AM I would like to thank everyone for all their kind words. I was going to write something about Dad and the stupid and sometimes completely mad things that he has done that will forever make me smile but all words have escaped me. I will miss meeting my Dad at lunch times and always having to have that one more drink before having to get back to work, and my daughter George is going to miss him taking her to the Bingo hall by mistake on the Medway Valley park instead of into the cinema EVERY time during half terms. He has left a big hole and I will miss him every day, as I am sure all of his family and friends will. Thank you all for your support to myself Charlotte and Val it is much appreciated. Just to change the subject can someone please point out the nice arse to me. Tamsin XXXXXX |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Sarah Kings Arms Date: 16 May 07 - 09:26 AM Hi all, My daughter said something yesterday about Pete that made me smile so i thought i would share it! She said "Mummy is he the funny one?" I said " Yes he was very funny but what are you talking about?" She said "he nicked all the profiteroles did'nt he. We were fighting over them!" I said " Yes thats the one". This proves it was not just the beer he had a soft spot for! Also that he had an impact on the children around him (even if he did fight them for profiteroles!). Sadly Missed!!!!! P.S Val,Just receicved a message from Larisa, She knows that you will have a lot to sort out when you get back. She will wait to hear from you. It is not that she does not care but she thinks you need time to grieve and sort things out. She does not want to add any unnecessary pressure at a difficult time. Love you XXXXXX |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: MickW Date: 16 May 07 - 02:25 PM |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Kev The Clogs Date: 16 May 07 - 06:34 PM Dear Tamsin, the reference to the "nice arse" is two fold. Pete was renown for saying "nice arse" to Gill (from Gundulf) - also, there was - at least one occasion that I saw, an evening when Pete was performing as Slatery, when, in the middle of a number, a particularly nice lady with a very nice bottom, passed by him - in the middle of a verse, Pete stopped singing and growled into his microphone - " Nice arse!" - and then continued performing as if nothing had happened!! She didn't take offence, we all howled with laughter, and Pete, bless him, carried on to complete the number with a wicked glint in is eye and a slightly mishievious grin!!! I shall miss him SO much. Best wishes to you. Take care. Kevin Bishop Gundulf |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Richard Bridge Date: 16 May 07 - 06:40 PM References to nice arses often have two folds.... I think, Kev, Tamsin was pulling our male legs, and suggesting that most male Morris dancers substituted quantity for quality |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: billybob Date: 16 May 07 - 06:54 PM Dear Charlotte and Tamsin one of my favourite memories of your lovely dad was when my daughter Samantha was a baby and we would all go to Farningham on a Friday and our babies would be deposited in the room at the back in their carrycots,( including Phil and Kay's baby) you all slept peacefully(wonderful music) and at the end of the evening Pete would hand out the carrycots and joke that we would take home the right baby!I am sure he never made a mistake, but it got a huge laugh! travel safe home Val,lots of hugs waiting here. Wendy xx |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Jim Date: 17 May 07 - 11:41 AM Yes Tams.As well you know.IT'S MINE ! |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: katlaughing Date: 17 May 07 - 12:25 PM I didn't know Pete, nor most people posting to this thread, but I'd like to say this is one of the most touching and wonderful tributes a person could ever hope for. It is obvious the world has lost a unique and special man and that he touched so many lives. Thank you all for sharing and may you all find comfort in your memories and each others' hugs. kat |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Charlotte, Eddie and Sue White Date: 17 May 07 - 02:12 PM Hello Val My Mum and Dad (Sue and Eddie White) from Oast Ouse Oppers, Offcumduns and Bishop Gundulfs, wanted to pass on their condolences, as do I. Sue Urwin had been keeping me up to date, and Clare Gray from Offcumduns told us the sad news on Sunday as we all got on a coach to go to Brighton Morris Mens Day of Dance. We had a great big booige for you and Pete in the rain, soakin wet, in clogs, and just wanted you to know we're thinking of you, sending some north west wishes your way :0) Eddie especially has been upset by the news having known Pete for longer than i've been alive (and i'm 24!), and had been calling me to check the 'intranet page website thingie' for news whenever he was on the phone to me for updates. He is ill himself at the moment but will attend the send off / suspected knees up that Pete deserves, even if my mum says No! best wishes Eddie and Sue White and Charlotte xx |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Dave Masterson Date: 18 May 07 - 04:51 AM Heard the sad news from Terry Heaslip at the beginning of the week, but this is the first opportunity I've had to put my thoughts down. Dear, dear, it only seems 5 minutes ago but it was the summer of 1970 when I first met Pete, at Dartford FC at the Station Hotel, and later at the wonderful, wonderful Coach House, Farningham. I had just moved down to Kent from North London, and they were my introduction to live folk music. Before that it was listening to Peter, Paul and Mary albums (which are still treasured possessions, I'll have you know!). Crayfolk in those days were Pete, John Barker (also sadly no longer with us) and Pete Chopin (Wendy – is Chopin still around? Last I heard he was living in Walton). We embryonic folkies held Pete and co. somewhat in awe. They were central to the folk revival in North Kent, and I remember us following them up to London one night to a gig at the pub in Gloucester Avenue just down from C Sharp House (can't remember the name of the pub) and who did we bump into? Of course, the omnipresent Dave Bryant! It was watching Pete dancing (and singing) with Hartley Morris on Boxing Day 1973 that made me decide I wanted to dance the Morris, and had many happy years with Hartley as a result. Being with Hartley in the 70's was quite amazing. The side in those days was massive and at one point we had to close the books on membership! The singing in the pubs after dance stands was awesome, and I think it was that experience that gave me my preference for bar sessions/singarounds over formal club settings. From the posts on this thread it is obvious that Pete, who over the years has engendered a love of folk music and dance in so many people, and is obviously held in great regard, will be greatly missed. A fitting epitaph. When someone we have known for so long passes suddenly like this, it makes one sit up and think upon the greater mysteries of life. None of us know when our time is to come, so it is an encouragement to live each day to the full and to keep short accounts. As it is written, "Don't let the sun go down on your anger." Goodbye Streaky, I hope you've found peace, and that we meet again in a better place. |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Su and Ali (cousins from the days of the Vic Date: 18 May 07 - 06:13 AM It's difficult to read through all these wonderful messages without it bringing a tear to your eye but at the end of the day it is also a reminder for us of so many good and fun memories of Pete and his days in the Vic. Who can forget those wonderful firework displays where Pete simply put any apparent 'duds' on the bonfire and waited for the sparks to fly, health and safety was NOT an issue! Or the time the cat ate the meat from the buffet and Pete calmly shooed the cat, cut off the obviously gnawed bits and it was business as usual. It was all part of his charm! And the dinosaur disco's we could go on and on, we had so many laughs (and some tears). Words are so inadequate at a time like this but our thoughts are with you Val, Charlotte, Tamsin & families. It must be so nice to know how loved Pete was and how much he will be missed by so many. Su and Ali |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Dilligaf Date: 18 May 07 - 11:06 AM Hi to you all We,re back home now and plans are in place. The celebration of his life will take place on tuesday 29th of May 1.00 from our house then at 1.30 at Cliffe Church and then a short commital service at Medway crem (there are those who say he should have been commited years ago) then a celebration of his life at The White Horse, Upper Stoke Rochester. bring your tankards your voices and anything you can play, wear your kits or something bright, Family flowers only but if you wish Donations to The Anthony Nolan foundation which Pete supported when he had the Vic and who found a donor when his great nephew had luekemia. I would love to see as many "old" faces as poss and collect all my cuddles in person. Love and Big hugs Valxxxxxxx |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Billybob,lost my cookie Date: 19 May 07 - 09:52 AM Dave, yes Chopping is still in Walton. I spoke to him last week, he was very upset, he has known Pete since they were at school in Dartford and learnt to play guitars together. I do not know if he will be at the celebration , but Bill and I will. love to all, hugs to Val Wendy |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: growler Date: 19 May 07 - 06:03 PM Val, keep your chin up, see you next Tuesday Simon |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Girl Friday Date: 20 May 07 - 04:02 PM Hi Val. Never been to your house, can you pm me with address. We know it's Upper Stoke, but can't find your address. Love from us both. Sue and Trev xxxxxxx |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Richard Bridge Date: 21 May 07 - 01:56 AM Upper Stoke is small enough you just go there and look for people - or ask in the pub! |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Girl Friday Date: 21 May 07 - 05:23 AM Ta Richard - will do... didn't think it through. |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Dilligaf Date: 21 May 07 - 02:09 PM I,ve just posted this on the other thread but to stop poor Richard getting phonoitus Every body is very welcome to come at whatever time they can and I am sure well almost (in good Pete tradition if the bar was open he was there) we will not be out the pub to early. If you bring sleeping bags you can kip on my floor or pitch your tents in the garden. Dilligaf |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Sheila Finn - Folk London - Invicta - Kits C Date: 23 May 07 - 08:21 AM My deepest condolences to all of Pete's family and friends. I first met him at Farningham in the late seventy's and we had been firm friends ever since. I am sorry I can't make Tuesday in person as I have to go to hospital but will be there in spirit. Musician, dancer, actor, pub landlord and friend, Pete was all of these. I have taken the liberty of putting a photo of him on the cover of the June Folk London and hope my printing company do it justice. It came from Blossom so blame him! God bless. |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Davewebb Date: 24 May 07 - 07:03 AM Shocked to hear about Pete. He has influenced my taste in folk music since the early 70's. I first saw him at Farningham Folk Club with the Crayfolk. Pete singing Paddy Lay Back and Peggy Gordon will be forevever in my memory. There must be some good clubs up there now with John Barker with his double bass and Dave Bryant with his operatic voice. Pete's dad will be there as well playing harmonica. I hope his 12 string finds a good home. |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,Pam & Alan Colls For Dartford Folk Club Date: 24 May 07 - 04:49 PM Fond memories of Pete with Crayfolk at the Railway in the 60's playing his 12 string with Pete Chopping on 6 string guitar and John Barker on double bass, was a big influence on getting us interested in Folk Music. Pete will be sadly missed. |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Yorkiedave Date: 25 May 07 - 10:38 AM Very sad news Val. Can't get down to Kent for Tuesday so I shall have to drink a toast to Pete up here instead. (Have got the bread soaking already.) Dave ( Ex Bishop Gundulfs) ps. Pete, being a gentleman would never make nasty comments. However, "increase" is an anagram of "Nice Arse"! |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: GUEST,John Wild Date: 26 May 07 - 08:54 PM Nothing I can say can add to what so many have already said. I just wish to add my condolences, and regrets that I wll be unable to be there on Tuesday. I will think of the moment. best wishes John Wild |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: growler Date: 30 May 07 - 04:49 PM What a send - off |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: Dilligaf Date: 30 May 07 - 06:01 PM THANK YOU TO EVERBODY, We gave Pete the send off he would have wanted and deserved.So many old friends and as Pete would have said there wasn,t a dry leg in the house when wadard sang "when all men sing" in the church. Thanks to your generousity we raised over £1500 for The Anthony Nolan Trust. Thank you one and all for doing the old git proud. Love and BIG hugs, Val (sorry but this time I did give a F**k) |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: billybob Date: 31 May 07 - 03:35 PM Val WELL DONE !!!!! It was a wonderful day and Pete would have been proud of you! I am so pleased you raised such a huge amount in Pete's memory for the Anthony Nolan Trust, maybe we can continue to raise funds in Pete's memory? It is such an important charity and as you said on Tuesday if we can save one young persons life ! Any ideas folks? Annual concert or do? see you next week Val, lots of love and hugs from Billy and me. Wendy xxxxx |
Subject: RE: Obit: Slats ('Streaky' Pete Hicks) meningitis From: growler Date: 31 May 07 - 04:16 PM Val, well done, what a great send off. We would be proud to have ' The Anthony Nolan Fund' as our named charity for the next year at ' The Good Intent Folk ' in Pete's name. God Bless Simon |
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