Obit: my dad

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: ClaireBear
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:00 PM

Me too. Sorrow and love, my dear.

((((Tami))))

Claire

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Tinker
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 06:31 PM

Just opened this thread and stopped. You know there are ears ready to hear you whenever you need. Til then cyber hugs will have to do...
((((Tami))))

Love and Light
tink

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Irish sergeant
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 05:47 PM

My deepest condolences to you and your family. Neil

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: skipy
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 05:25 PM

So sorry to read this thread, take care of yourself during these troubled times.
Skipy

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: SussexCarole
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 05:00 PM

So sorry to hear this news. We're thinking of you & your family Tami. Love & hugs from us both
Carole & Andrew xx

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: topical tom
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 04:54 PM

My sympathies, thoughts and prayers are with you.

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: SINSULL
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 03:06 PM

Jacqui is thinking of you and will call as soon as she can.
M

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: SINSULL
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 03:06 PM

Tami,
I just left a message on your machine. I am sorry this happened and that it happened so suddenly. Anything at all - just call and say it. Don't ask. You don't have to.
Let Jason look after you over the next couple of days.
Love,
Mary

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: skarpi
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 02:59 PM

Hallo Tami , I am sorry to hear this , but hugs and lights
from us here in Iceland ,

all the best from Skarpi Iceland
P.s travel save .

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 02:37 PM

Oh, Tami, I'm sending light and love your way during this dark time. Take care, my dear.

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Partridge
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 01:48 PM

I'm thinking of you Tami, its a horrible place to be in. I cant give you a hug physically but please know that I am mentally. Think all the happy memories of your Dad. Breathe.

love

Pat xx

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Rapparee
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:48 AM

There's nothing I can do or say except that my thoughts are with you.

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Leadfingers
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:38 AM

Deepest Sympathy Tami

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Morticia
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:32 AM

(((((((hugs))))))

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: bfdk
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:29 AM

Becca, if you're selling that dad of yours on shares, I want a couple, too!!

Tami, I'm so sorry to hear your news, it's the most dreadful wake-up call you can get when someone calls to tell you you've lost a parent.

There are no words that will make it easier, and so I won't resort to platitudes. Just know that I'm thinking of you and wishing you strength to face what lies ahead. A big hug from your mate in Denmark,

Bente

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: open mike
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:26 AM

you have been through so much....
hang in there, be strong, and also
take time to NOT be strong when
you need to -- and let others
help -- don't be afraid to ask
for help....people will often say
"if there is anything I can do to
help" but they don't know WHAT to
do. I am glad you are getting hugs..
more hugs here: {{{ranger}}}

time will heal.

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Ebbie
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:21 AM

(((((Tami)))))

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Amos
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:21 AM

Ach....Tami, hugs and sorrow.

Keep breathing; and if you get the opportunity to send him some last messages, take it. It sometimes happens...


A

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Becca72
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:08 AM

Oh, Tami...I'm so sorry. Don't hesitate to ask if you need something. And you have full access to my dad whenever you need one!

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Megan L
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:55 AM

No Kendal that wisny a smile it wis a wince when ye broke her ribs :) weel done lad they were backed up by all o us

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: kendall
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:53 AM

Tami stopped here on her way to NH. A couple of bear hugs seemed to bring a smile to her dear face.

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: artbrooks
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:05 AM

Hugs and tears. There are no good words.

Art

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: jeffp
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:04 AM

The above was me. Don't know where my cookie ran off to. Again, my sincere condolences.

Jeff

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: GUEST
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:03 AM

Sorry to hear of this. My sympathies to you and yours.

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:03 AM

Aw, Tami, when it rains it pours. We go through tough years, then things level out and you'll find you're stronger. But right now it's full-fledged shock. Take time to take care of yourself.

Maggie (SRS)

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: katlaughing
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:59 AM

{{{{{{Tami}}}}} Lots of love and good thoughts sent to you, now. Sometimes folks just have to check out and we'll never understand why, esp. when they are relatively young. May you find comfort in the good parts and let your friends help as we may.

luvyakat

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: fat B****rd
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:52 AM

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my best regards and concolences. Charlie

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Megan L
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:49 AM

With Gnu on this thoughts and prayers lassie. Hold firmly to good memories let time soften any bad ones and love yourself enough to let them drift like campfire smoke on a gentle breeze.

Dauvitt and his Meg

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: gnu
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:21 AM

Thoughts and prayers.

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Big Mick
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:12 AM

I am so sorry to hear this, Tammie. Remember your friends are here for you. Your post gives a hint that you will have some things to deal with, and those of us who know you want you to know that we care.

God be good to him,

Mick

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Jeanie
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:01 AM

So sorry to hear this. Will be thinking of you and your family.

- jeanie

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Beer
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 08:36 AM

Deepest sympathies to you and your love ones. It won't be easy but you will get through it.
adrien

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Bee
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 08:29 AM

My sympathies go out to you. It is not easy, losing a parent, and telling you now that it will get better is not likely much comfort.

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Jeri
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 08:10 AM

Big honkin' hug from me. If I can do anything, please let me know.

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Mooh
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:42 AM

Very sorry to hear that. Look after you and yours right now. You have our hopes and prayers.

Peace, Mooh.

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: Micca
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:41 AM

Tams, I am with you in spirit, if there is anything I can do, please feel free to ask,

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: maeve
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:36 AM

My dad died just as suddenly, Tami. You will find your own ways of grieving and rejoicing. Please take care of you in the midst of the confusion and sorrow. Let your friends have the honor of listening when you are moved to speak.

Love and prayers,

maeve

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: The PA
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:20 AM

So sorry, you must be heartbroken. At least you know it was quick.

Exactly the same happened to me three years ago, on my birthday, as we were all leaving the house for dinner. It does get a bit easier, just takes time. Take all the time you need.

Drive carefully.

Subject: RE: BS: my dad
From: theleveller
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:17 AM

You have my sympathy, Ranger, even though I don't know you or your dad. It's a very young age to die – just 3 years older than me. Several of my peer group have died in the last couple of years and it makes you realise that life is not a rehearsal. Perhaps the words 'old age shall not wither them or the years condemn' may be some comfort.

Subject: BS: my dad
From: ranger1
Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:02 AM

My brother called me about 20 minutes ago to tell me that our dad died last night from a massive heart attack. He was only 62. It doesn't seem real yet and I hope it stays that way until I get the 130 miles between here and there. It wasn't always an easy relationship, but it had become a very good one. I miss him already.