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BS: Lesbian Question???

M.Ted 27 Dec 08 - 11:24 PM
gnu 27 Dec 08 - 07:13 PM
gnu 27 Dec 08 - 07:07 PM
Ed T 27 Dec 08 - 06:59 PM
Bobert 27 Dec 08 - 06:25 PM
Noreen 27 Dec 08 - 06:20 PM
Lizzie Cornish 1 27 Dec 08 - 06:05 PM
Ebbie 27 Dec 08 - 05:58 PM
Lizzie Cornish 1 27 Dec 08 - 05:44 PM
Bobert 27 Dec 08 - 05:32 PM
akenaton 27 Dec 08 - 05:27 PM
Noreen 27 Dec 08 - 05:21 PM
John MacKenzie 27 Dec 08 - 05:14 PM
Little Hawk 27 Dec 08 - 04:56 PM
akenaton 27 Dec 08 - 02:28 PM
gnu 27 Dec 08 - 11:15 AM
akenaton 27 Dec 08 - 11:01 AM
GUEST,Jim Knowledge 27 Dec 08 - 08:44 AM
Bobert 27 Dec 08 - 08:38 AM
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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: M.Ted
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 11:24 PM

Bobert: I stand behind my statement "Now that you've met the person in question, you're starting to get to know the person, which is really the only way to find out what they're about--and that's about all there is to it."

I like to keep an open mind, but I keep my eyes open, too.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: gnu
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 07:13 PM

Ed T..... that was one letter away from being the worst typo ever, eh?

Sorry.... goes with my New Years Revolution... no laugh left behind.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: gnu
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 07:07 PM

Hummin during communion.... why does Level 42 stick in my head?

Mmmmm... hmm...hmm...hmmm...hmm.hm. hm. hm. hmmmmmmm...

Good tune, and, you can hum along to that when you are busy. Like when yer having a munch.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Ed T
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 06:59 PM

A young woman, came to terms with her sexuality and decided to come out of the closet.

She wanted to tell her elderly mother first. So, she went to the kitchen, where her mother was stirring stew with a wooden spoon to break the news. Rather nervously, she explained to that she was gay.

Without looking up from her stew, her mother said, "You mean, yer a
lesbian?" "Well... yes", said the daughter"

Still without looking up, the mother asked: "What is it you lesbians do fer sex?"

Caught off guard, the young woman openly explained her personal preference during sex.

After hearing this, her mother held up the wooden spoon and said: Its OK with me if your a lesbian and do these things. But, I don't "ever" want to hear you complain again about the taste of my cookin'!"


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 06:25 PM

I'm not sayin' anything here, Liz, that I haven't allready talked with the P-Vine about...

Well, we'll see what we get this week... The story is that this woman goes to Richmond on the weekends to work and not around... What kind of work??? I donno... Then she is here during the weekdays where she get therapy??? For what??? I donno...

I do know that the last email was CHristmas day... It may be a video of the Christmas Eve performance... But this woman didn't have a video camera... It won't load for me so I don't know what is on it but the only test is "In honor of yout your recent success"???

We tried to open the download but it doesn't work on our computer so we don't know what's on there???

B~


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Noreen
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 06:20 PM

Only weird in that she is a touch obsessed with her new friend at the moment (which can get very wearing for P-Vine if the obsession doesn't calm down) and wants to be where P-Vine is. Can't see any other harm in it.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Lizzie Cornish 1
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 06:05 PM

"But anothe thing that had me a little concerned was a comment that this woman made about having not been ina church in 20 some years... That, in itself, is okay but the only reason she was in that church that night was becasue the P-Vine was going to be leading the childrens choir??? I donno??? That seems kinda wierd..."


Yup.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Ebbie
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 05:58 PM

"Icould never understand why lesbians want to ally themselves to homosexuals." Ake

I suspect that I'm being a bit over-literal again, but I have to say it: In what way are lesbians not homosexual?


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Lizzie Cornish 1
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 05:44 PM

No, ake..that's not always true.

One of my relatives is gay, and a really lovely chap too. He used to be married to a lesbian, who wasn't a lovely woman. She was mean and horrible to him, lazy as hell about their child, not an ounce of maternal instinct in her, whilst he had far more than most women.

The child grew up with her mother. Big mistake, her father would have brought her up very differently, with far more love. She turned him against her father for many years, as she had a total downer on many men in general. It broke his heart. He's always loved children, always, and his own daughter was very precious to him.

He's had two partners in near on 30 years. The first one died, and to be honest, if he hadn't, they may well have still been together, as they were so fond of one another, great friends as well as partners.

His ex-wife meanwhile, has had partner after partner after partner, and all those partners have been put *before* her only child, who grew up with many problems.

People are individuals, and for me, they don't act in the same way purely because of their sexual orientation. You're either a kind, thoughtful person, or you ain't.

Bobz, you should maybe talk to your lady about it all, perhaps tell her how you're feeling.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 05:32 PM

Well, yeah, that does make a lot of sense... I'm trying my level best to just be my level best... No reacting... No judging...

Yeah, the P-Vine and I are both somewhat suspicious... Me perhaps more than her but, really, both of us...

And this woman is a tad on the obnoxious side... No, not her bahavior as much as her spiky hair and general appearance... And she was humming loudly during communion on Christmas Eve which was a little wierd... The P-Vine even whispered, "Who is doing that humming?"

But anothe thing that had me a little concerned was a comment that this woman made about having not been ina church in 20 some years... That, in itself, is okay but the only reason she was in that church that night was becasue the P-Vine was going to be leading the childrens choir??? I donno??? That seems kinda wierd...

B~


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: akenaton
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 05:27 PM

Are they obnoxious because they hang labels round their necks and feel they must try to live up to those labels.
Icould never understand why lesbians want to ally themselves to homosexuals.
Lesbian couples seem to me to have much more in common with hetero sexual couples. According to the statistics Ive been reading, they have the same sort of lifestyle regarding nos of partners length of relationships, divorce/separation rates etc,


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Noreen
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 05:21 PM

Bobert, I gather you are worried because this woman "freaked" because you were coming home early?

It feels to me that this woman feels comfortable with your lovely, trusting P-Vine, and is rather (or very) wary of the rest of the world, possibly particularly men- not that she fears you in particular, or has 'designs' on your lovely lady.

I think you must just carry on being interested and supportive, letting P-vine know you are happy to listen to what she tells you about this woman, without getting uptight or defensive. P-Vine may be naive in your terms, but I guess she knows a lot about people and relationships. She will need you as a sounding board to talk over her concerns about this woman; not to make her decisions for her but to listen supportively.

Make sense?


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: John MacKenzie
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 05:14 PM

That's a difficult concept to get over LH. Some people just won't see that you can dislike someone for their personality rather than their sexual proclivities.
It's like kids, some folks say, 'I love kids', but ya can't love ALL kids, 'cos some of them is plain obnoxious.
I guess it depends on the personal agenda of the other party.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Little Hawk
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 04:56 PM

A lot of people are a little weird. The question is, are they a little weird in a good way? ;-)

I've never felt threatened or bothered by anyone on account of her being lesbian (or bisexual)...although thinking back...I have known one or two lesbians in the past who were just plain obnoxious, but it wasn't because they were lesbian, it was just because they were obnoxious individuals, period. ;-D


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: akenaton
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 02:28 PM

Too, Troo, Gnoo.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: gnu
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 11:15 AM

Right on, Bobert.

Ake... yup.... laughs are about all we got some days, eh?


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: akenaton
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 11:01 AM

Pleased to see you back Jim!

Stick around , we could all do with a good laugh....Ake


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: GUEST,Jim Knowledge
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 08:44 AM

I `ad a bloke in my cab the day and he tapped me on the shoulder and said, "`ere Jim, whaddya think about that lovely blonde totty over there?"
I said, "Which one?"
`e said, "That girl with the cropped `air and leather desert boots."
I said to `im, "She`s a lesbian"
`e said, "What`s a lesbian then?"
I said, "Well, she`d like to meet a girl,undress `er, cuddle `er, kiss `er boobs and lick `er all over."
`e said, "Blimey, I must be a lesbian too!!"

Whadda me and Jethro like??


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 27 Dec 08 - 08:38 AM

Well, M-T, having met her hasn't exactly quelled my suspicions... Personally, I think she is a little wierd... Personally, the P-Vine thinks she is a little wierd, too... So the book is still out but I'm keepin' my good eye open...

Now as for you, nu-zer... Hey, I could never be mad at you... We go way back and we're tight... Right???

B~


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: M.Ted
Date: 26 Dec 08 - 01:24 PM

Here I am, a day late and a dollar short again, but I figure that I ought to jump in--

In case you haven't figured it out, Bobert, P-Vine's friend is trying to be herself in a world that doesn't really very much like people who are as different as she is--

James Brown said, "It's A Man's World"--It is, and not in a good way.

Men have a nasty tendency to expect that woman are there to wait on them, and that women's needs, interests, and friendships are not as important as getting the beer from the fridge to the couch--women have to deal with it all the time.

As young, longhaired, blues playing, pot tokin', left leaning hippies, we knew that we weren't what Time Magazine and the Reader's Digest said we were, and "The Man" just didn't understand--we did our best to conduct our lives out of line of sight, cause we knew it made us harder to use for be target practice. Same for Gay and Lesbian folks. Especially in and those beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains.

I hate to tell you this, Bobby, but starting out in this situation, you were sounding a bit like "The Man"--rather than being trusting and accepting, or even just getting to know the person before you came to a conclusion, you've been leaning toward "the uncomfortable feeling", based on labels and hair styles, and such things.

My neighbors, the right-leaning "Christian" home schoolers, told me, "I just have a funny feeling about Obama." Sometimes we have to question our "feelings", rather than counting emails--

Now that you've met the person in question, you're starting to get to know the person, which is really the only way to find out what they're about--and that's about all there is to it.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: gnu
Date: 26 Dec 08 - 12:58 PM

Gosh! Just got a PM. I did have a gay friend. I may even have more... or lose more?

Hey, just joking... really! Just joking. Gosh again! Lighten up eh? I don't care... really... I don't. I am not gonna stop making any jokes due to PI.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: gnu
Date: 26 Dec 08 - 12:35 PM

Or would that be too far round the end... ahh... bend?

Sorry... I can't stop.

(Apologies to all my gay friends... and yours too... maybe even to you.)


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: gnu
Date: 25 Dec 08 - 07:40 PM

Couln't you find it within your reach? To forgive me?


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: gnu
Date: 25 Dec 08 - 07:39 PM

I SAID I was sorry.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 25 Dec 08 - 07:20 PM

This ***will*** come back to haunt you, nu-zer...


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: gnu
Date: 25 Dec 08 - 07:15 PM

I am glad that, a few hours ago, I refrained from posting on this thread at this particular juncture. Since I have no humour bounderies, it could have been rather inappropriate (try typing that when you are dyslexic and havin a Gooseberry wine or three).

But... I am SOOOOOO tempted.

Okay.... just one... but then I gotto go, okay?

Bobert.... do you get these thoughts often?

Hehehehee.... made myself laugh... and that's half the battle.

Sorry Bobert... couldn't resist!


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 25 Dec 08 - 12:37 PM

Ake, ol son...

You just don't know the P-Vine like I do... She is very, ahhhhhh, trusting and niave... I mean, that's a good thing in some ways but tends to work against here in some areas of adult life...

Thanks for the sites, Ed... I've just a got a few minutes now but I will pull 'um up and read 'um when time permits later today...

BTW, I'll share some thoughts I have on homosexuality later, as well...

B~


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Ed T
Date: 25 Dec 08 - 12:21 PM

These sites give an interesting perspective,whether you are gay or straight:


http://www.thirdage.com/sex/discussions/the-gay-lesbian-bisexual-and-transgender-discussion-hosted-by-monroe



http://www.niaonline.com/MPage.php?WhatToFetch=ReadArticle&Article_ID=2294


http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/lesbiansex/a/MarriedSex.htm


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: akenaton
Date: 25 Dec 08 - 07:56 AM

Bobert....I think you must be havin' a Christmas "piss take", I can't take this seriously!

Surely if you really are concerned enough to put this out in public, its time to sit down with your good lady and have a frank and personal discussion?

Merry Christmas to you both BTW and a Guid peaceful New Year....Ake


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 24 Dec 08 - 11:03 PM

Yeah, kat, I agree, Ellen is hot...

P-Vine's lady friend ain't and she's emailed the P-Vine 3 times in the last 3 hours...

I think we have a situation...

B~


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: katlaughing
Date: 24 Dec 08 - 09:50 PM

I agree with Bob, gnu. Thanks for posting the link; I didn't know about Pink, before this. That's a very good, hard-hitting song, imo. AND, someone is bitching about something not being appropriate, musically, in a BS thread???!! LOL!

Bobert, Ellen IS hot!


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: GUEST,Bob Ryszkiewicz
Date: 24 Dec 08 - 09:12 PM

gnu: Pink's "Mr President" was Folk enough for me...Maybe it was because she wasn't wearing jeans, hoisting a pint, and wasn't singing in a Folk Club...Great spirits have always met with violent opposition from those with mediocre minds....(para. Einstein, I, uh, think...)BR


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 24 Dec 08 - 09:07 PM

You keep readin' this thread, nu-zer and you might become one...

Keep postin' and the Mudwomenz might take care of that little bagage yer carryin' so you'd be well on yer way...

B~


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: gnu
Date: 24 Dec 08 - 08:43 PM

"No Ellen Degeneris"... too bad. She's hot. I mean, if it came to that.

Gosh. I think I am a lesbian.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 24 Dec 08 - 07:35 PM

Well, the plot did thicken today...

P-Vine's "friend" called this morning, found out I was at work and asked if it was okay to come up to the house...

I left eraly and called the P-VIne and told her I was on the way home and according to all of P-Vine's accounts this woman had kinda a panic attack and wnated to leave but the P-Vine assured her that I wasn''t a bad guy and so when I got home I ghot to meet this woman...

Okay, she is kinda (like real) mascaline... No Ellen Degeneris... Spikey hair... But nevermind that stuff...

I thought I made her feel comfy...

Then tonight, the P-Vine was leading the childrens choir at the church and this woman showed up and and sat with us... But soon as the service was over she was gone, gone, gone...

I donno if she thought I wasn't gonna be there 'er what... I really don't want to bother the P-Vine with a bunch of questions because our relationship is built on trust...

Like I said, interesting plot change...

B~


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: gnu
Date: 24 Dec 08 - 07:14 PM

Just got a PM admonishing.... well... Pink. (Not me because I like Pink??) Could not be, could it?

This here old folker that told me that Pink wasn't FOLK!! she was all "party started and disco rap kinda thing".... AND, "the tunes don't have any place in this forum."

So, that means this person clicked a link, listened to one song, and does not know anything about one of today's true folk artists...

Pink


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: gnu
Date: 24 Dec 08 - 10:58 AM

I wonner where Vinnie got them fancy gummies and if they come in steel toe? They'd be a hit at the sandpit dance on Sa'rday night.

I LIKE Pink!


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Backwoodsman
Date: 24 Dec 08 - 10:41 AM

"Plus, I could use a year in the hospital... Maybe two???"

Hey, with you hospitalised, who would lead our Pirate crew?? :-) LOL.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: GUEST,Bob Ryszkiewicz
Date: 24 Dec 08 - 09:01 AM

Yes Lizzie: Folkies need to RELAX! Dance NEW dances. Meet DIFFERENT kinds of people...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rTlWqW6fSYc
Be dangerous and get down wid yo own bad self...
BR


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 23 Dec 08 - 06:02 PM

Wow, Lizzie.... I don't tango but I've seen it in the old black and white movies so, what the heck, I could fake it... Plus, I could use a year in the hospital... Maybe two???

Like I said... No, maybe I didn't say it??? But I'm ready to be Mr. Sensitive and Mr. On-Top-of-Things when it comes to this thing...

("Mr. On-Top-of-Things", Boberdz???)

Well, ya'll know what I mean...

B~


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Lizzie Cornish 1
Date: 23 Dec 08 - 05:31 PM

"Plus, I will be attending the performances and after-gig parties so this woman ***is*** going to see me and see how the P-Vine and I interact..."

Easy peasy, Bobz....

You just dance the Argentinian Tango with the P-vine...


Get all hot...and steamy...and sweaty... ;0)

Then, at the end, lean her backwards, and kiss her, long and slow..

Yup, I reckon that should do the trick.

Of course, you both may have to be hospitalised for at least a year and a bit, but hell, just think of the story you can tell the other patients!

Failing this, I'd just relax, because women do tend to email each other a lot more than men. Heck we email *men* a lot more than men email other men. It's the internet equivalent of women on the phone..or in the street, or over dinner. We gals just love to yatter on....Trust me, 5 emails a day is nothing.

I was fancied once, by a lady of the other persuasion. Took me by surprise somewhat I can tell you. She told me I had a lovely body, (er...I'm going back decades now..and even then she'd have been fibbing)...so I made a joke about it, but then, I caught her looking at me in the same kind of way a man would normally have done, and well....it kind of freaked me out somewhat, to say the least. So she got the message loud, clear and kindly that I wasn't interested, no way, heck no no no.... She never did it again and stayed well clear of me. Even if something were going on in her mind, I'm sure the P-vine would feel the same as I did..the same as you would if it were a man. It's a 'nature' thing, same as anyone gay being fancied by the wrong sex kinda worries them too.

Mind you, she could have heard about the great way you write, and how you make us all fall of our chairs with chuckles, so often...and the crush could be on you, not your Lady Fair...

Hmmmm...the more I think about it, the more practice you and your P-vine are going to have to put into that Argentinian Tango. :0)

And hell, just think of the fun you can both have! ;0)


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Gurney
Date: 23 Dec 08 - 05:10 PM

Well yes, being here for a few years would .....Ulp.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 23 Dec 08 - 04:52 PM

I ain't choir material... Way too undisicplined and way too rowdy...

But, hey, I think I have a purdy good level of knowledge now that I didn't have when I started this thread and a comfort level, as well...

Plus, I will be attending the performances and after-gig parties so this woman ***is*** going to see me and see how the P-Vine and I interact...

That oughtta be enough but if things escalate intil then, I'm comfy with what needs to be done... And how... 20 years workin' with folks with mental problems wasn't a total waste (LOL) plus my years here in Mudville (LOL)...

B~


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: GUEST,leeneia
Date: 23 Dec 08 - 10:58 AM

Bobert, why don't you join the choir and see for yourself?


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Mr Red
Date: 23 Dec 08 - 09:28 AM

One to watch - I would say. Do nothing is not the best policy, intervention is a bit strong but then 5 e-mails a day is a bit strong. Needy is not strong enough IMHO. If the e-mail replies came from both of you it might find a new level.

I have seen this to a lesser degree with an girlfriend and a sneeky man. I made sure he knew where and who I was and waited for him to blot his copy book. Which was not a hit-on (as it happened), he just didn't repay kindnesses and then it was the end of the story. Mind you I should have got the women in our community who knew what he was like to put the boot in - it would have saved time.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Bobert
Date: 22 Dec 08 - 05:45 PM

Well, first of all, I think if it were a man emailing the P-Vine 5 times a day in the middle of the night, yeah, I would have some level of concern and, frankly, would handle it much differently in that I have some experience with that scenerio...

Second, no, these aren't forwarded emails...

Apparently the P-Vine is about be become a board memeber of a singing group and the best I figure out this woman is in that group and is kinda trying to get involved with the board... Plus other things... Heck... I don't read them all ot many for that matter 'cause I feel it ain't my business but the P-Vine asked me to to read the "coming out" one and I did and that's when I started the thread...

And thanks to all here I have a purdy good handle on things...

B~


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: GUEST, Richard Bridge
Date: 22 Dec 08 - 05:13 PM

I feel a little unease about some of the unease here.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Wesley S
Date: 22 Dec 08 - 02:45 PM

The question I'd be asking which has been hinted at is - are these original e-mails? As in a four or five part monologue? Or forwarded articles, poems, stories from other sources? There's a big difference.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: jeffp
Date: 22 Dec 08 - 02:36 PM

From what I know of the Luray area, it is beautiful, but it doesn't seem to me to be a very comfortable place to be homosexual. She may be very lonely and just sense the the P-vine is not uncomfortable to be around her, so she's being a little closer than she might otherwise be in a more accepting region.

That might very well be all that it is.


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Subject: RE: BS: Lesbian Question???
From: Gurney
Date: 22 Dec 08 - 02:19 PM

Quote from a TV show of years ago:
"Friends. They are like therapy, but for poor people!"

Maybe what the woman is seeking. Just a thought.


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