Obit: Sandy Paton (22 January 1929 - 26 July 2009)

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: dwditty
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 10:13 AM

Blessings on a gentleman and a truely gentle man. Sad news, indeed.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Eve Goldberg
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 10:17 AM

I'm so, so sorry to hear this news.

I met Sandy and Caroline when they came up here to be part of the staff at The Woods Music and Dance Camp. I was in charge of merchandise that year, and they came loaded down with what seemed like their complete catalogue. I don't think we've ever had so many titles for sale in the boutique, up until then, or since! Needless to say, they "moved a lot of product" that week, as they say in the biz. I had my hands full managing it all, but they were gracious and patient with me (I think I must have been all of 17 or 18!).

It was also when Sandy and Caroline met Rick Fielding. I remember Sandy telling me that week that it had been years since he had been so impressed by a fellow musician. That meeting led to Rick subsequently recording for Folk Legacy Records, and, well, most of you know that that was a huge turning point in Rick's career.

After that, I didn't see them very often, but any time I ran into them at a festival, Sandy always wanted to talk, find out how things were going, and generally shoot the breeze. Customers would come and go from their sales tent, and we'd still be chatting away, sometimes for up to an hour. He was quick to introduce me to other friends who stopped by, and he made me feel like part of the clan. Sandy's attention and respect meant lot to me as a "youngster" on the scene.

I will miss them dearly, even though we weren't in regular contact. RIP Sandy, I know there must be quite a good sing going on up there.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Barbara
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 10:18 AM

Oh no!
Say it ain't so!
I met Sandy here, and here is where I knew him and Caroline, and, God, I'm gonna miss him.

...more later when I can...
Blessings,
Barbara

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Sandy Mc Lean
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 10:19 AM

RIP! My sympathy to his family! Long live his legacy!

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Maryrrf
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 10:28 AM

I did not know him personally, only through his reputation and throught his posts on Mudcat. His passing is a great loss. I'd like to add my condolences to his family.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: bbc
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 10:31 AM

The mailing address is as follows:

Caroline Paton
P.O. Box 1148
Sharon, CT 06069

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Brian Peters
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 10:43 AM

I'd been aware of the riches of the Folk Legacy catalogue for many years, so it was a thrill to have met Sandy and Caroline at Old Songs on more than one occasion. Like Eve, I was flattered by the interest he took in my music.

A man of huge achievements, and delightful in person, Sandy's is a truly sad loss, but his contribution will never be forgotten.
My best wishes to Caroline.
Brian

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 10:46 AM

Wish I had the opportunity to meet Sandy. He sounds a stellar individual.

The Paton family continue in my thoughts.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Bobert
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 10:56 AM

Sniff...

Never met him but having just read all of the lovely posts here about his life he must have been one heck of a man...

RIP, Sandy and my condolences to his family and his many friends here and eleswhere...

Bobert

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Anglo
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:04 AM

Sadly, I couldn't get to Kaelan Paton's memorial, where I would have seen Sandy one last time. I knew he was grieving Kaelan's loss, but certainly didn't see this coming. It is a great loss to so many different parts of the folk community in particular, and indeed to anyone his life has touched.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: bbc
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:08 AM

John,

In some sense, Duane & I have felt that we represented Sandy & Caroline as we worked at the Folk Legacy booth the past 2 years at NEFFA & Old Songs. We conveyed everyone's love & good wishes to them. I know that Sandy & Caroline have felt supported by the folk music community. Just continue to extend your love to Caroline as you are able.

Barbara

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Thomas Stern
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:08 AM

my deepest cndolences to Caroline and the family
How sad to lose Sandy!
He made so many contributions to the folk world.
A folklorist and field recorder, a vast knowledge of song, generously shared,
Folk-Legacy records the source of important traditional and folk-revival recordings,
always encouraging the projects of others,
and through his and Carolines singing at many folk events.

I've cobbled together a chronology from web
sources, far from complete, but perhaps of
interest:


Charles Alexander (Sandy) Paton
b.1929 Florida
d.26 July 2009
father regular army man
Ohio, Kansas, Seattle (5 years)
1950 left "home"   NY trained as actor
1952 interest in Folk Music through Warren Povey
1954 left acting for folk singing
1955 Park Lane Hotel, Toledo; Plantation Inn
Spring 57 Saturday night folk radio show in SF
Sept 57 UCB concert
appeared with Walt Robertson, Paul Clayton, Richard Chase
met Caroline
Nov 1957 to England
1958 London
performed at Folksong Unlimited, Troubadour Coffee House, Eel Pie Island
travelled Britain, Scottish Highlands
1960 Chicago added folkmusic to record department at Krock's and Brentano's bookstore
1961 formed Folk-Legacy Records with LEE BAKER HAGGERTY(1930-2000)

AWARDS - Sandy and Caroline Paton have been honored by:
the California Traditional Music Society,
the Memphis Dulcimer Festival,
the Eisteddfod Festival of Traditional Arts in Massachusetts,
and others.
1993 Connecticut Commission on the Arts "official State Troubadours"


RECORDINGS of Sandy Paton/Sandy and Caroine Paton
-------------------------------------------------

Jazz Collector JEA.1 American Folk Songs Vol.1
liner notes: Colin Pomroy
Sandy Paton Sings (vocal and guitar)
A1 East Virginia Blues
A2 Rovin' Gambler
B1 Every Night When The Sun Goes In
B2 Cool Colorado

   
Collector Records JEA 2 Sandy Paton sings American Folk Songs Vol.2
Recorded, London, September 29th 1958
recording engineer Stanhope Blaikley
Supervision by Colin Pomroy
liner notes: Paul carter
A1 Captain Wedderburn's Courtship
A2 Wife of Ushers Well
B1 Twa Sisters
B2 The Farmer's Cursed Wife


Collector JEA 3 Sandy Paton Folk Songs of Love
Alberta
At The Foot Of Yonders Mount
Colorado Trail
Cuckoo


Elektra 148 The many sides of Sandy Paton (1958)
additional guitar accompaniments by Fred Hellerman
liner notes: Robert Sherman
song notes: Kenneth S. Goldstein
insert booklet song texts
Production supervisor, Jac Holzman
Engineer, David B. Jones
A1 Captian Wedderburn's Courtship
A2 The Wee Magic Stane
A3 Katy Cruel
A4 An Auld Man
A5 The Overgate
A6 Twa Heids
A7 Auld Maid in a Garret
A8 Wee Croodlin' Doo

B1 Daily Growing
B2 Byker Hill
B3 The Foggy Dew
B4 Coming Home From the Wake
B5 Wild Mountain Thyme
B6 The Begging Tongue
B7 I Never Go To Work
B8 Children's Songs

Elektra EKL 223 A Treasury of Folk Songs for Children: Various Artists - 1962
Production: Jac Holzman
Side 1 - Fun Songs
1A10 Sandy Paton: I Never Go To Work
1A11 Sandy Paton: Street Songs

Elektra SMP 6 The Folk Scene: Various Artists
- Sandy Paton: Daily Growing


Topic TOP 57 Hush Little Baby - Sandy and Caroline Paton   (p)1960
American songs and ballads sung as lullabies
sleeve by Brian Byfield, insert notes
"During Sandy and Caroline Paton's stay in Britain their first child was born.
On this record the Patons sing some of the songs that young David Paton liked."
A1 Perrie Merrie Dixi Domini
A2 Katy Cruel
A3 The Quaker Courtship
B1 Hush Little Baby
B2 Lord Bateman
B3 Tittery Nan Tum Tario


Droll Yankees DY-9 NEVER TRUST A SKIER Sandy Paton    1961
in the Alpen Inn, Sugarbush Valley, Vermont.
A1 Bend in his Knees
A2 Farmer's Cursed Wife
A3 The Great American Bum
A4 The Ballad of Dr.Freud
A5 Hi-Ro-Jerum
A6 Fire Down Below

B1 The Goddam Cat
B2 Go 'Way, Old Man, Go 'Way
B3 Duncan and Brady
B4 Never Trust A Skier
B5 Go 'Way From My Window
B6 Come All You Fair and Tender Ladies
B7 Gamblin' Man


Biograph BLP-12051 Fox Hollow 10th Anniversary, Vol.1       LP (1975)
-Wild Mountain Thyme [1966]


Folk-Legacy 30 Sandy and Caroline Paton
Across the Blue Mountain
Chillly Winds
Coulter's Candy
Foggy Dew, The
Good Old Days of Adam and Eve
I Woke Up In a Dry Bed
I'm A Rambler and a Gambler
I've Traveled This Country
Johnny, Oh, Johnny
Lamoile River Song, The
Loving Hannah
Meekins and Morkins
Now My Friends, the Meeting Is Over
Rivers of Texas, The
Unquiet Grave, The


Folk-Legacy 52 - Sandy and Caroline Paton - I've Got a Song
Aiken Drum
Bump-A-Deedle
By 'M By
Come Along John
Hey Little Boy
I Know A Little Blue-Eyed Baby
I Live in a Great Big Building
I've Got a Song
James, James
Little Johnny Brown
Magic Penny
Mama Lend Me Your Pigeon
Move Over
Opposite Song
This Is a Song
Watch the Stars
You Can't Make a Turtle Come Out


Folk-Legacy 100 Sandy and Caroline Paton - New Harmony
All Gone For Grog
Didn't I Dance
Great Storm Is Over, The
Hori Horo
I Have Seen My Valley
Joshuay
Log Driver's Waltz
May the Roads Rise With You
New Harmony
Rambling Man
Roustabout Song
Rowdy Soul


Folk-Legacy 1002 Sandy and Caroline Paton - When the Spirit Says Sing
Apples and Bananas
Chickens They Are Crowing
Comet
Cousin Emmy's Blues
Dig a Geoduck
Farmer's Curst Wife
Flea Fly
Froggie
Geoduck Reprise
Julian of Norwich
One Bottle Pop
Peace Like a River
Peanut Butter Jam
Peanut Butter Jam
River, Take Me Along
Rubber Blubber Whale
Skin and Bones
Underwears
Vine and Fig Tree
Waltzing With Bears
When the Spirit Says Sing



RECORDINGS by Sandy Paton
-------------------------

Folkways FA2360 Frank Profitt (Edited by Frank Warner) 1962
A1 Beaver Dam Road      1:26
A2 Cindy                2:16
A3 Bo Lamkin            4:08
A4 Julie Jenkins       1:46
A5 George Collins       2:24
A6 Ninety and Nine      3:23
A7 Down in the Valley   2:46
B1 Baby-O               1:37
B2 Old Abe             3:31
B3 Poor Ellen Smith    1:50
B4 Dan Doo             1:55
B5 John Hardy          2:27
B6 Ground Hog          1:56
B7 Johnson Boys         1:46


Folkways FA2362 Horton Barker 1962
A1 Wayfaring Stranger                3:56
A2 Wondrous Love                      4:26
A3 The Gypsy's Wedding Day            2:56
A4 The Miller's Will                  3:16
A5 Amazing Grace                      4:20
A6 Lord Thomas and Fair Ellender      4:29
A7 Bow and Balance                   5:26
B1 At the Foot of Yonders Mountain    2:00
B2 The Turkish Rebilee                4:41
B3 Blue-Haired Jimmy                  2:12
B4 The Drunkard's Courtship          1:47
B5 The Farmer's Curst Wife            3:07
B6 There Was an Old Lady             2:22
B7 Rolly Trudum                      2:40
B8 City Four Square                   4:14
B9 Devilish Mary                      2:16
B10 Hop, Old Rabbit, Hop               1:23
B11 Sweet Mary                         1:41
B12 Paddy Doyle                        1:51


New World Records NW-239/80239 BRAVE BOYS - New England Traditions in Folk Music
Produced and recorded in the field by Sandy Paton (p)1977/1995
Featuring recordings of Gail Stoddard Storm, Lewis Lund, Ben Mandel, Gale Huntington, Sara Cleveland, Lawrence Older, Mrs. Morris Austin, Harvey Tolman, the Van Arsdales, and many others
booklet with historical text by Sandy Paton, plus information on the recordings artists, each song and the lyrics. Released 1977.


Folk-Legacy CD-1 Frank Proffitt of Reese, NC
Bonnie James Campbell
Cluck Old Hen
Going Across the Mountain
Gyps of David
Handsome Molly
I'll Never Get Drunk No More
I'm Going Back to North Carolina
Lord Randall
Moonshine
Morning Fair
Reuben Train
Rye Whiskey
Song of a Lost Hunter or Love Henr
Sourwood Mountain
Tom Dooley (Dula)
Trifling Woman
Wild Bill Jones


Folk-Legacy CD-36 Frank Proffitt - Memorial Album
Blackberry Wine
Everybody's Got to Be Tried
Got No Sugar Baby Now
I'm A Long Time Traveling Here Bel
Little Birdie
Little White Robe
Lord Lovell
Man of Constant Sorrow
Oh, Lord, What a Morning
Poor Man
Poor Soldier
Satan Your Kingdom Must Come Down
Shake Hands With Mother Again
Shulls Mills
Single Girl
Will the Circle Be Unbroken?


Folk Legacy CD 125 Ballads and Songs of Tradition
1. Cutty's Wedding - Jeannie Robertson, Aberdeen, Scotland.
    Recorded in Edinburgh by Hamish Henderson with Sandy Paton, September, 1958;
2. Gyps of David (Child 200) - Frank Proffitt, Reese, NC.
    Recorded by Sandy Paton, September, 1961;
3. Gypsy Davy (Child 200) - Lawrence Older, Middle Grove, NY.
    Recorded by Sandy Paton, 1964;
4. Are You Sleeping, Maggie - Jeannie Robertson, Aberdeen, Scotland.
    Recorded by Hamish Henderson with Sandy Paton, September, 1958;
5. Hind Horn (Child 17) - Joe Estey, New Brunswick, Canada.
    Recorded by Lee Haggerty and Henry Felt, August, 1963;
6. My Bonny Boy (Laws 0 35) - Lizzie Higgins, Aberdeen, Scotland.
    Recorded in Aberdeen, Scotland, by Sandy Paton with Hamish Henderson, September, 1958;
7. Bonny James Campbell (Child 210) - Frank Proffitt, Reese, NC.
    Recorded by Sandy Paton, September, 1961;
8. The House Carpenter (Child 243) - Lee Monroe Presnell, Beech Mountain, NC.
    Recorded by Diane Hamilton, Paul Clayton and Liam Clancy, 1956;
9. The House Carpenter (Child 243) - Dave Thompson, Sugar Grove, NC.
    Recorded by Lee Haggerty and Henry Felt, 1963;
10. Twa Brothers (Child 49) - Jeannie Robertson, Aberdeen, Scotland.
    Recorded in Edinburgh by Hamish Henderson with Sandy Paton, September, 1958;
11. The Jolly Tinker (Laws L 13) - James Brown, New Brunswick, Canada.
    Recorded by Sandy Paton with Dr. Edward Ives, August, 1962;
12. Tom Sherman's Barroom (Laws B 1) - Vern Smelser, Paoli, IN.
    Recorded by Pat Dunford and Lee Haggerty, 1963;
13. Lost Jimmy Whalen (Laws C 8) - Marie Hare, Strathadam, New Brunswick, Canada.
    Recorded by Sandy Paton, 1962;
14. I'll Get Married A-Sunday - William Harrison Burnett, Fayetteville, AR.
    Recorded by Sandy Paton, 1962;
15. The Bunch of Watercresses - Joe Estey, New Brunswick, Canada.
    Recorded by Lee Haggerty and Henry Felt, August, 1963;
16. The Overgate - Jeannie Robertson, Aberdeen, Scotland.
    Recorded in Edinburgh, Scotland, by Hamish Henderson with Sandy Paton, September, 1958;
17. The Young Man who Wouldn't Hoe Corn (Laws H 13) -Vern Smelser, Paoli, IN.
    Recorded by Pat Dunford and Lee Haggerty, 1963;
18. Sweet Sixteen - William Harrison Burnett, Fayetteville, AR.
    Recorded by Sandy Paton, December, 1962;
19. He Never Came Back - Mrs Miner (Harriet Hall) Griffin, Fayetteville, AR.
    Recorded by Sandy Paton, 1962;
20. The Old Arm Chair - Lee Monroe Presnell, Beech Mountain, NC.
    Recorded by Diane Hamilton, Paul Clayton and Liam Clancy, 1956;
21. The Old Arm Chair - Grant Rogers, Walton, NY.
    Recorded by Sandy Paton, 1964

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Big Mick
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:24 AM

This really hits hard. Like so many here, I love this man, and his influence on me musically is beyond what can be measured. Not only from his product, but from his great heart and caring way. I remember once, at a Getaway, when I was helping with the Folk Legacy table, and Sandy and I were sitting together. I was singing Gypsy Davy, and Sandy told me that I reminded him of Frank Profitt. What a moment. Of course, I am not a Frank Profitt, but that was just this gentle man's way of embracing and encouraging. I remember the first Getaway that Mudcatters started going to, as Mudcatters. Jeri, Barry, myself, Kath Westra, Duane, Beebs (Spaw and I can call her that), and others, ..... we had a Mudcat hello session, and I sang "Rare Old Times". Sandy just made me feel so comfortable. That was the weekend he told me that I had to hear Rick Fielding's music.

Sandy, Caroline, and I had a tradition. Whenever we were in the same area, we would meet at the local Cracker Barrel restaraunt and eat eggs and chicken fried steak. It started after our first Getaway. I remember once when they called me from the road. They were playing gigs in Indiana (and visiting Caroline's family in Gary), and decided to swing up on I94 and meet me at the Cracker Barrel near Kalamazoo. We laughed, talked, adjourned to the rockers out front and sang songs. This continued whenever we were together and a Cracker Barrel was near. And as time went on, it involved other Mudcatters that were there as well. Kind of neat when the bunch of us sit out front in a song circle in those rockers. And it started with Sandy.

A few years back I had one of the greatest thrills. I was going to a folk festival near Sharon, but needed a place to sleep. The Paton's put us up, and I got to sleep in THAT ROOM. Actually, "sleep in" is not accurate. Because this room is floor to ceiling, and every wall, nook, and cranny, filled with books. Music books, history books, it is a paradise for a guy like me. You don't really sleep in that room, you start to browse, and hours later you doze off and wake up in the morning with a book laying on your face. You pick it up and start reading again.

Because of the Paton's, I got to know Ed Trickett. Ed gave me a song to record that is still regarded as one of the great Famine songs out there. Ed's singing has influenced my own mightily. And I owe that to Sandy.

I could go on and on. This man's influence was that big on me. He embraced me with love and respect, and I sent it right back. And the amazing thing is that he did the same for so many others, many who post here, that his voice will never die. Generations will be affected and influenced by his work, and by his love. As for me, I don't know how to describe the gratitude that I feel for what has been done for me.

A couple of things. Kath Westra, you introduced me to Sandy and Caroline, and I love you for doing it. You are a part of their "chosen family", so I know this hits hard. Every time I hear you tell me how the Patons "rescued you from the Calvinists, I chuckle. I also love you because you are a great heart, and have quickly become my great friend. I know this hits you hard, as the Patons were surrogate parents for you.

Beebs (me and Spawzer can call you that), the things you have always done to help the Patons are acknowledged with gratitude from me.

karenk, chin up. You are another of the Paton's "chosen family". The pain leaves and the memories remain.

I talked with Caroline this morning. To say she is a remarkable woman is to finally master the art of understatement. Her, Rob, and Dave are pulling together and getting things in order. This is a strong family, and they are committed to keeping our beloved Folk Legacy together and moving into the future.

I love you, Grandpa Paton, and I will sing your song here until we meet up at the next song circle we are at together.

Love,

Mick

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Roger in Baltimore
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:26 AM

This news is way too sad. I'm crying at work again. I met Sandy and Caroline at a Folk Alliance conference. We were in a song circle and was truly enjoying sharing baritone parts with Sandy. He was very encouraging. I later met them at a few Getaways, but that seems years ago. I had not seen many Sandy posts here at Mudcat and began to suspect he was not well. Then I read of his recent loss. From bbc's post it sounds like Sandy may have decided it was time, as I believe some people do. He had such a kind and helpful heart that I know he is in a better place. My condolences to his family.

Roger in Baltimore

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Severn
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:35 AM

A very sad day for the music and for all who knew him. My thoughts are with the family and all his many friends who will be mourning his loss.

We used to correspond on another site years ago and he helped me out on a few things from finding Civil War era songs (I was a re-enactor back then) to obtaining missing booklets for Folk-Legacy recordings I'd purcased used. His good conversation and generosity were greatly valued. I finally got to meet him at a Washington DC area appearence and he was as gracious in person as he'd been in print.

And, of course, anything on Folk Legacy could be purchased sight unseen/sound unheard and would be pretty much guaranteed not to disappoint. How many labels with that many recordings could say THAT about. A quality human being putting out a quality body of music, who himself sang a quality body of music in a way that was delightful to hear. A man to be revered for his accomplishments, his loss is tremendous.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: GUEST,Patricia
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:37 AM

My heart hurts - for the family, for the loss to those of us still "here", for the sadness, though I am glad that he is not suffering any longer. I treasure the times that I got to spend time with him and Caroline (mostly at NOMAD and other festivals). What a special person.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: DonMeixner
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:37 AM

One of the great momments at each Old Songs event I attended was the conversations with Sandy. I amparticularly reminded of his story of Grant Rogers funeral.
    Grant was a great story teller, fiddler, singer, song writer and historian from the Catskills. And he was one of many people Sandy had the pleasure to record and come to know at Folk Legacy. At Grant's funeral, with a room full of musicians for what ever reason there was no music at Grant's funeral.
    Sandy was obviously sad for his friend Grant as he told me the story and he said with a smile to me, "I know there will be music at mine."
   I remember I said, "Mine too, Sandy."

My condolences to his family, especially to Caroline, and to us all, we will miss him.

Don Meixner

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Lonesome EJ
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:45 AM

When I first began posting here in 1999, Sandy was a familiar presence. His posts were remarkable for their friendly and knowledgeable quality, and it was evident that he was the subject of much deference and respect. As time went by, I learned more about Sandy and Caroline and their work in Folk and Traditional music. I spoke with Sandy only twice, once when ordering some disks from Folk Legacy. And he seemed excited and pleased to speak to me. I remember he said, after answering the phone, "Caroline, its Lonesome EJ!" The second time was when I made a remark to him in a thread that I felt later could be interpreted as an insult, and he responded "actually I didn't even see it. I would never be so thin-skinned as to get mad about that anyway."
A gentleman and a scholar, and one of the presences on Mudcat that gave the Mudcat Forum a significant weight of importance and genuineness.
My sincere condolences to Caroline.The world is a better place for Sandy having been in it.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: KathWestra
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:51 AM

Grieving the loss of a friend, mentor, musical inspiration, and one of the kindest and most loving human beings ever to walk the Earth. The world is far richer for Sandy's 80 years among us, and far sadder for his leaving. Sending love to Caroline, David, Rob, Marian, Linnea, Shannon, Juliana, Eric and Hannah--and to all of those who, like me, are mourning Sandy's passing today.

Sandy has been an important part of my life for many years. If it weren't for him and Caroline, I would not be the person I am, nor know any of you. Sandy and Caroline entered my life 38 years ago, when I was 17. They not only encouraged me, but made it possible for me to leave Michigan and relocate to the East coast in 1974. It was a life-changing and life-affirming move for me, and one for which I thanked Sandy again just a week ago.

Sandy was an incredible scholar of folklore and history, whose vast knowledge he shared eagerly with others. He referred to his large collection of books as "the university education I never had"--and what an education it was. Sandy was a fine and thoughtful writer, and we shared a delight in language and words, and still liked to reminisce over a particular game of "Dictionary" played in the Patons' living room one long-ago Thanksgiving.

And, as so many others have noted, Sandy's labor of love, Folk-Legacy, has touched so many--and in so many ways has been the rock on which our singing community has been built over the years. As I look at the list of songs I sing, so many were learned from Sandy and Caroline, or from the many, many singers whose music first came to me via those wonderful Folk-Legacy recordings. Sandy and Caroline would almost certainly have become materially richer had they pursued another line of work. But we would all be poorer if they had done so. Sandy's physical body may be gone, but his Folk-Legacy lives on.

Thinking about Sandy this morning, I found myself humming "It Soon Be Done." Sandy and Caroline sang that song in one of their Michigan concerts that influenced me so profoundly all those years ago. What made an impression on me was Sandy's introduction. He always made note of these words:

"I'm gonna shake hands with all of the elders,
Tell all the people Good Mornin',
Sit down beside my Jesus,
Sit down and rest awhile."

Sandy was delighted by the idea the song conveyed of death as a joyful "Good Mornin'"

Rest awhile, dear Sandy. Your life and love have touched me deeply.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:53 AM

I never met the Patons, have only read posts for years here at Mudcat, but the Dwyer family sends condolences. I seem to recall from conversations with Bob Nelson and Don Firth that Sandy and Caroline Paton lived in the Pacific Northwest for a time and Dad (John Dwyer) was a friend and fan.

Sandy's posts at Mudcat.

SRS

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: RoyH (Burl)
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 11:56 AM

I can't describe just how deeply this news moves me.I had looked forward to meeting Sandy and Caroline once again when I come over in October, but now the trip has lost much of its lustre. I met them for the first time in 1976, it was my first visit to the USA. We were on a festival together and they sought me out, told me they knew my singing from recordings and looked forward to hearing me live, and in general made a rather nervous visitor feel welcomed and at home,a typical action from these wonderful people. 'Folk Legacy' is aptly named because the gift of music and humanity that Sandy leaves behind is a legacy for us all, and a fitting tribute to him. Dear Caroline, Elaine and I send our thoughts and prayers across the ocean to you and the rest of your family at this grievous time. Dear Sandy, thank you for all that you were to us, and all that you left for us to remember. It is comforting to know that you left peacefully and with your family around you. But we will all miss you. Goodbye dear friend. In tears. Roy.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: topical tom
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 12:05 PM

My sympathy and prayers go out to Caroline and family. As someone so aptly said on Mudcat in response to another obit, there is nothing one can say, but words are all we have to offer at this sad time. I pray they may provide some comfort.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Peace
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 12:08 PM

I had the honour of exchanging some messages with Sandy when his grandson passed away. What a man he was. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Art Thieme
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 12:17 PM

I feel crushed. Numb. So many memories. My father died when I was five years old. I think Sandy became my surrogate dad about 1959--in Chicago. For sure, he was my mentor, the one who showed me I ought to blaze and look for a path there I could walk down---and make my own. Following his lead, has made all the difference. More later, when I am better able.

Old buddy, goodnight!

Love,

Art

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: GUEST,Elmore
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 12:19 PM

A wonderful singer,and a warm, caring man has left us.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Waddon Pete
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 12:20 PM

Like so many, I knew Sandy only through his singing and the written word; either Mudcat posting or personal e-mails. However, I have no hesitation in saying that he was a great man in so many different ways.

Some people have that gift of connectivity, what you might call the, "Have you met?...." or the, "Have you heard?...." effect. Like so many here have found, he also had that effect on me. His life's work opened my ears to many good singers and musicians.

Yes, the work will go on. Every time we sing, we will remember him.

Whatever one says seems inadequate on such occasions, but I give thanks for Sandy. He made my life the richer. Caroline, I am thinking of you all.

Best wishes,

Peter

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Desert Dancer
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 12:21 PM

A Folk Legacy indeed, and obviously much more to those who knew him.

My own contacts with him were just a few and brief, but his generous nature was apparent.

My sympathies to all who were close to him.

~ Becky Nankivell

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Bill D
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 12:27 PM

I first met Sandy & Caroline about 1980, when they came to a Getaway in the old Prince William Park site...they brought LPs, and *I* happened to be there as they unloaded. They had brought 2 copies of everything, and I got 1st choice. *smile*

Then, every few years, we were treated to their friendly sharing & wide knowlege.
I hate saying goodbyes, so I when I miss Sandy, I will just go downstairs & sit with a pile of old, black LPs...and remember how I came to have such treasures.

Mick mentiond that 'hello session' at a Getaway....that was Oct. 21, 2000, and here are Sandy & Caroline that morning...

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Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: WFDU - Ron Olesko
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 12:27 PM

Sandy was an icon, and one of the nicest people I ever met.   When my radio station started broadcasting traditional music, Folk Legacy was one of the first companies to supply us with LP's, and Sandy was generous with helping us build a library. Each package from Folk Legacy was a treasured gift.   I would run into Sandy at places like Old Songs or Clearwater and he would always greet me with a smile and a cheerful greeting. I will always admire the man and everything that he did for this community. My condolences to Caroline and family as well as all the wonderful friends.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Amos
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 12:33 PM

Ah, no!!! He has always been one of the stars at the edge of our amorphous circle here, one of those constants you look toward to know you have not lost your bearings. This passage will be like the vanishing of a constellation, unexpected, disorienting, unsettling. What prayers I have go out to his safe arrival and to his family.

I often take comfort in this piece, when losses like this one confound me, and I offer it with deep affection and respect:



Gone From My Sight

I am standing upon the seashore.
A ship at my side spreads her white sails
to the morning breeze
and starts for the blue ocean.

She is an object of beauty and strength.
I stand and watch her until at length
she hangs like a speck of white cloud
just where the sea and sky come
to mingle with each other.

Then, someone at my side says;
"There, she is gone!"
"Gone where?"
Gone from my sight. That is all.

She is just as large in mast and hull
and spar as she was when she left my side
and she is just as able to bear her
load of living freight to her destined port.

Her diminished size is in me, not in her.
And just at the moment when someone
at my side says, "There, she is gone!"

There are other eyes watching her coming,
and other voices ready to take up the glad
shout;

"Here she comes!"

And that is dying.


by Henry Van Dyke, a 19th Century clergyman, educator, poet, and religious writer.


A.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: katlaughing
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 01:01 PM

Oh, SandyGramps...can't see for the tears.


That's the second time in three months I have missed calling a friend just before they passed on. The other friend let go in grief,too. I hope there isn't a third time.

One other award Sandy and Caroline received...though it isn't nearly as significant or worldly as some of those others, they made me feel as though it were and that was the First Annual Mudcat Living Treasure Award.

{{{{Caroline and Family and *Adopted* family}}}}

bbc, thank you

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: GUEST,Steve Jerrett
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 01:16 PM

I am truly saddened by this news.

I met Sandy and Caroline at my first Folk Alliance in Philadelphia back when I was performing and managing a coffeehouse in the Boston area. He nominated me to serve on the board.

One of my fondest memories is sitting in an after hours sing out in the lobby outside the banquet rooms with him on one side and Hazel Dickens on the other, harmonizing to "Amazing Grace".

Sing on, Sandy!

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Uncle Phil
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 01:27 PM

The people that collect and preserve the music are the best among us. They give us the base for all of our study, concert and back porch performance, songwriting, and composing. Well done, Sandy.

Michelle and I extend our condolences to family and friends. Grace, mercy, and peace to you.
- Phil

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: EBarnacle
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 01:30 PM

Sandy was more than just an icon. He and Caroline are [as long as Caroline continues, it is still "they are"] a nexus. Many of us have and will come together due to their presence and the things they have done. They are a tradition.

I first met Sandy and Caroline back in the 70's at the Hudson Valley Folk Picnics, the predecessor of Clearwater's Great Hudson River Revival. Sandy was always generous with their time and knowledge and they both willingly participated in events I ran for several organizations, whether or not there was money available. It was always a pleasure to run into them at events and chat, however briefly.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Wesley S
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 01:39 PM

I never had the pleasure of meeting the man. But it's obvious that there is a great big empty Sandy Paton sized hole in the world right now. Maybe it will never be filled. But if we work together - we can try.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: kendall
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 01:42 PM

I was doing pretty good until I read Dani's post about Sandy and me at Ramblewood. There was so much more we could have done if we had known that our singing days were numbered.
I have to leave because I'm going to lose it.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: frogprince
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 01:45 PM

Another of the great big hearts has ceased. He had more than earned his rest; but so sad for the family to have two great losses almost at once. Many of us will know, from all that's said here, that we missed something very special in not knowing Sandy in person.
                           Dean

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Rapparee
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 02:04 PM

There is nothing, absolutely nothing, I can say that hasn't been said.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Dan Schatz
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 02:10 PM

From Sing Out! today.

Dan

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Folk-Legacy Records founder Sandy Paton passed away on Sunday July 26 around 6:30pm. He had been hospitalized the last few days after becoming extremely fatigued. Sandy had been in poor health in recent years, suffering from emphysema which required that he was constantly connected to oxygen. About a month ago, Sandy & Caroline’s grandson died tragically – drowning in a river in Connecticut. Friends have said that Sandy took the loss extremely hard.

Sandy, with his wife Caroline and the late Lee Haggerty, founded Folk-Legacy Records as an independent recording company specializing in traditional and contemporary folk music of the English-speaking world in 1961. Over the 48 years Folk-Legacy has existed, they have produced over 120 recordings with Sandy doing the actual recording and taking cover photographs.

Sandy was a terrific singer in his own right, as well. He and Caroline were designated as the Official Connecticut State Troubadours for 1993-1994.

Sing Out! editor Mark Moss adds: “In a world where meeting your “idols” rarely works out very well, Sandy Paton was an inspiration. His love, dedication and vision for traditional music was unwavering … but he was never strident, pushy or rude about his impressive knowledge. This was a guy who was all about loving the music and wanting to share his love for the songs and singers. And each Folk-Legacy release exuded that passion. Once I “met” my first Folk-Legacy release (the original Golden Ring recording), I was hooked … and am proud to own almost every release from the label. Hardly “hi tech,” but the music Sandy captured, made and shared was the real thing in the truest sense of the words. It was an honor to have known him. My heart was already breaking for the family (after the loss of his grandson Kaelan in June) … I can’t imagine the pain the family is feeling now. A sad, sad day.”

Information about a memorial service is forthcoming.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: jacqui.c
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 02:10 PM

I met Sandy and Caroline just under five years ago, when Sandy married Kendall and me. From day one I felt as if I had been drawn into their extended family and was always made to feel so welcome when we visited. I don't think that I have ever felt like a 'guest' in their house.

I will miss walking in a hugging that big bear of a man, getting a kiss and having his big hand wrap round my arm in greeting. We had some amazing conversations, particularly this year.

Go back to the Universe Sandy - I was honoured to know you, even for such a short time.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: georgeward
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 02:26 PM

One by one they're leaving me, the heroes of my youth"
-George Papavgeris (Mudcatter El Greco)

Grand song. It's on here someplace. Look it up. It's what was singing itself on my head yesterday. Honestly. Make of that what you will.

Kathy Westra wrote, "I would not be the person I am, nor know any of you." I can probably say the same, as Vaughn could have too. I called Caroline, as always having no bloody idea what to say and feeling tongue-tied. We probably talked for half an hour - laughing and crying - for so the memories came flooding back.

And the personal thing is, but also is not the point. The point is - as this thread continues to demonstrate - that so many of us, in our different ways, can say the same. The web that Sandy and Caroline wove - each in his/her own way (how wonderfully personal and quirky) - is simply staggering. It reaches beyond any and all of us, we know not how far. And in a world in which so many are so devoted to weaving evil (too often in the name of good), it may not be too much to say that theirs' is the web of the still, small voice. They've lived it, modelled it, made us believe in it too.

Rest in peace, dear old friend. You've earned it.

And to end as I began (with only a slight paraphrase), I just hope that I can play my part and be worthy of my friend.

- George

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Jeri
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 02:30 PM

The first time I met Sandy was at a Sandy & Caroline performance in 1973 that Vaughn Ward brought a bunch of us kids to. I've never forgotten.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: bseed(charleskratz)
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 02:56 PM

I got the sad news today on Facebook, posted by Max. I never met Sandy and had little exchange with him here (most of my posts have been too trivial to attract his attention), but was very aware of his presence, both from his posts and from what others posted about him. I was terribly moved by the news of the loss of his and Caroline's grandson, and Sandy's death coming so soon after seems like an unbearable loss for Caroline and family, and for their friends, and for the entire Mudcat community.

Many of you know of my Monday night jams, and tonight I'm going to read Ron Olesko's birthday notice/brief bio of Sandy, and request that the group dedicate this song in his memory.

WHO WILL SING FOR ME
Carter Stanley (third verse by John McCutcheon?)

1. Oft I sing for my friends,
   When death's cold form I see
   And when I reach my journey's end
   Tell me who will sing for me

Chorus:
I wonder (I wonder) who
Will sing (will sing) for me
When I come to cross that silent sea,
Tell me who will sing for me

2. When my friends have gathered 'round
   And look down on me
   Will they turn and walk away
   Or will they sing one song for me

3. So I'll sing until the end
   And helpful try to be
   Ever knowing there'll be some
   Who will sing one song for me


Charles

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: Arkie
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 03:03 PM

Though never having personally known Sandy or Caroline is am still saddened by this occasion and feel as though I have lost a personal friend. My introduction to the Patons was enjoying their performances at the FSGW Getaway ages ago and then there was the discovery of Folk Legacy recordings and the subsequent discovery of the many artists they recorded. Admiration increased with the realization that Folk Legacy recorded many people whose music ought to be passed on and preserved but who did not necessarily sell a lot of records. I appreciate the efforts the Patons made to disseminate music and information and my life, the lives of many others, were made richer through them. I will miss Sandy and my heart goes out to Caroline and the family.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: GUEST,bob stepno
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 03:07 PM

It dawns on me that without Sandy, Caroline, those Golden Ring albums and Bill Domler's Sounding Board coffeehouse, which they inspired, I might never have opened my mouth in front of an audience, hit many wrong notes, forgot lyrics, carried on anyway.

And without the confidence to do those things, I certainly could never have become a teacher. A teacher of things I do much better than sing, that is.

Thanks, Sandy and Caroline (and their extended family around the Sounding Board, Pinewoods and more) for sharing, inspiring, touching lives and... I think I'll go play some music tonight.

Bob @ stepno.com

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: open mike
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 03:12 PM

Yes LEGACY is certainly the right word...i will play Folk Legacy
music on my next radio show August 8th in memory of Sandy, who,
like Alan Lomax, did so much to promote and preseve the music of the folks.

Dictionary...Main Entry: leg·a·cy       noun


1 : a gift by will especially of money or other personal property   
   : bequest   
2 : something transmitted by or received from an ancestor            
    predecessor or from the past as in:
    the legacy of the ancient philosophers


be·quest          noun
Etymology:
    Middle English, irregular from bequethen Date:   14th century

1 : the act of bequeathing 2 : something bequeathed : legacy


    be·queath      transitive verb
Etymology:
    Middle English bequethen, from Old English becwethan,
from be- + cwethan to say — more at quoth Date: before 12th century

1 : to give or leave by will —used especially of personal property 2 : to hand down : transmit

    trans·mit       verb
Etymology:
    Middle English transmitten, from Latin transmittere, from trans- + mittere to send    15th century

transitive verb
1 a: to send or convey from one person or place to another : forward b: to cause or allow to spread: as (1): to convey by or as if by inheritance or heredity : hand down (2): to convey (infection) abroad or to another 2 a (1): to cause (as light or force) to pass or be conveyed through space or a medium (2): to admit the passage of : conduct b: to send out (a signal) either by radio waves or over a wire intransitive verb: to send out a signal either by radio waves or over a wire



*I am thinking of the term "to hand down" (pass along, transmit)
compared with the descriptive phrase of praise "hands down" as in , he wins hands down....and they both apply to Sandy!

I hope someone can print this thread for Caroline and perhaps others
at the memorial....so much loss to bear, I wish for strength for all the family and friends who have so recently had to suffer Kaelan's loss.

Thanks for all that Sandy has done for folk music and musical folks.

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: bbc
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 03:21 PM

Duane D. has gone over to Patons to help get some orders out. I know he will tell them about this thread & its many expressions of love. I am home, if anyone would like a little more info (without bothering the family) or would like to chat. I can be reached at [phone] or [e-mail].

best,

Barbara

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: folkie43
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 03:33 PM

I just cannot believe it -especially so soon after his grandchild died so tragically. He was a huge part of my life for many years, helping my brother start the Sounding Board Coffeehouse and just being there for me in the last 8 years when most of my family passed away.
I can remember meeting him & Caroline for the first time back in 1973 and sitting in their huge living area and everyone was singing "Only Remember". It seems such an appropriate song for today.
Caroline - my heart goes out to you and it was so nice to hear you a couple of weeks back.. PLEASE let me know if there is anything I can do. Love you all - Janet Domler Steucek

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: John on the Sunset Coast
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 03:45 PM

So sorry to read of his death. May his family find strength from their wonderful memories of his life, and may we all,,,even those who did not directly know him.

RIP

Subject: RE: Obit: Sandy Paton
From: lisa null
Date: 27 Jul 09 - 03:58 PM

I ache at the idea of not seeing Sandy anymore. He was my buddy, my mental sparring partner, my colleague, my comforter, and above all, my mentor. He and Caroline helped me start the record company I co-founded with Pat Sky (Green Linnet)-- they gave me their mailing list and hours of advice to go with it. I lived in CT and when times were tough and I just "had to get away," they were always there for me with a bed, coffee or tea, and a bevy of songs.

Sandy was empathetic but never intruded into my private sorrows-- at least not without my asking for his help. When I asked, he always gave me his opinion straight, and i learned to respect his humane dose of reality.

I always knew what he liked or didn't like musically and why-- he was honest about that too, even if it was my own singing.

One summer, Caroline and i went field collecting together in Waterbury CT. We would come home like two giggling sisters on a shopping spree, and there would be Sandy delighting in our adventures and ready to play Caroline's cassettes, no matter how late at night.

The Patons lived at the other end of the state from me, but they were the next door neighbors I always wanted. Sandy taught me much about performing, but more importantly, (at the tag end of the commercial folk boom), he taught me how to keep the music alive and vibrant as part of a growing community of people who sing for love He and Caroline always believed in letting songs speak for themselves. They taught me that my job as a singer was to purge the words and tune of affectation and hoked-up drama. This is easier said than done, but they succeeded with their own songs as they helped me with mine.

All these memories will live with me forever, but most of all I will remember how fully Sandy lived his life-- his zany and sometimes ribald humor, his gusto at New England's diners and pizzerias not to mention New York's Chinese restaurants. He had great story-telling gifts and bestowed not only stories but gentle attention he gave to all the young 'uns who entered his orbit. He was a great listener. i have a painting of Sandy's from his younger days as an artist --golden trees bending in an invisible wind. I told him I loved it, and suddenly it was mine. That's the kind of man Sandy was.