Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010

Subject: therasa tooleys/treaties funeral
From: elmo 1
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 01:34 PM

Due to adverse weather conditions John cannot do anything until at least the back end of next week if the weather gets any worse it may be longer I will post it when I have a definite date

Subject: RE: therasa tooleys/treaties funeral
From: nutty
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 02:31 PM

Thanks Eileen/Maurice for letting us know - I thought the present weather conditions might cause problems.

Subject: RE: therasa tooleys/treaties funeral
From: SINSULL
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 02:33 PM

Thanks for the update.
Mary

Subject: RE: therasa tooleys/treaties funeral
From: Aeola
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 03:36 PM

Thanks for update,, I will ring you at the weekend

Subject: RE: therasa tooleys/treaties funeral
From: Ebbie
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 08:10 PM

This thread title is a shocker all over again.

Subject: RE: therasa tooleys/treaties funeral
From: SussexCarole
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 05:17 AM

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Subject: RE: therasa tooleys/treaties funeral
From: SussexCarole
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 05:39 PM

It is hoped that Theresa's funeral will take place on Thursday 14th January at 12.40 At the moment this date is provisional due to the weather conditions in Manchester. Full details will be posted as soon as possible.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January
From: Alio
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 06:59 PM

Thanks for letting us know Carole. I'll pass this info on to others who are wanting to know.

Ali x

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Surreysinger
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 08:57 PM

Thanks for the details. I had been thinking of attending, but sadly it looks as though I can't make it. I will,however, pass the information on to a couple of people I know who might be interested but don't access Mudcat.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Black belt caterpillar wrestler
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 07:15 AM

I'm afraid that I shall be at another funeral at the same time, my work colleage and sometime boss. They seem to be coming thick and fast.

Robin

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: SINSULL
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 08:14 AM

Thanks for the update Carole. I will drink a toast to Theresa at the appropriate time.
MAry

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Mrs.Duck
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 10:59 AM

Geoff and I will be attending.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 11:32 AM

Is there any update on whether it is going ahead and details of venue please ?

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Pistachio
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 12:10 PM

The weather will probably remain poor according to various forecasts. I'll make every effort to attend but safety is the over-riding factor at this time. H.x

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: SussexCarole
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 03:07 PM

Theresa's funeral will take place at Howe Bridge Crematorium Chapel Lovers Lane, Atherton, Manchester M46 0PZ at 1.00p.m. on Thursday 14th January 2010 and afterwards at the Woodland Cemetery, City Road, Worsley M28 1BD at 2.30p.m. (Weather Permitting!)

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Zany Mouse
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 03:52 PM

We will try to mke it but a lot depends on the weather. At the moment it's not possible to drive out of our village.

It would be wonderful if we could make the same sort of celebration and festival of life that we did for Col K. It was a wonderful send off for a wonderful guy and I think Theresa deserves the same.

Blessings
Rhiannon

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: My guru always said
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 04:47 AM

We would really like to come along, but not sure how we'd manage in this weather from Surrey. It would be wonderful if a Memorial Day could be planned so that we can all get together to celebrate knowing Theresa. This Lady deserves a really good send-off!!

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: MoorleyMan
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 05:35 AM

In normal circumstances I too would definitely be planning to attend, but the weather conditions have been, and are forecast to be, atrocious and even a relatively short (in mileage terms) trans-Pennine journey is extremely hazardous. I've been grounded for the past three weeks, and I can't see the situation improving before Thursday, sadly.

Theresa deserves the very best of send-offs, and the comparison with ColK is well made, so Hils I think your idea is much more sensible for when the big freeze is over - count me in for that!

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 201
From: Carol
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 05:49 AM

Yes, I would have been attending but unless the weather changes a lot I won't be taking the chance.
Hils suggestion to give Theresa a Memorial Day sounds v good.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: My guru always said
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 09:22 AM

'Twas Rhiannon's suggestion really, but I do hope that something can be worked out by someone close to Theresa. We'd definitely be up for that! I'm certain that a lot of Theresa's friends will still be able to get to the funeral if the weather can just calm down a bit!

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Merek'n'Dary
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 11:24 AM

Unfortunately we will not be able to make it but agree that a Memorial day to Theresa would be a great idea!

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Herga Kitty
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 03:50 PM

I'm not likely to make it from London to Manchester on Thursday, but
here's the shanty I sang for Theresa on the bad shirts and shanty day in the Endeavour at Whitby in 2001, after she won the Saltburn shanty competition:

I'm feeling sad and so forlorn
Sing 'em loud
Can't help the gender I was born
Sing 'em loud

We weedy women high and shrill
Sing 'em loud
Can't compete with Jim or Bill
Sing 'em loud

While they are belting out each word
Sing 'em loud
We women struggle to be heard
Sing 'em loud

But there is one who breaks the rule she
Sings 'em loud
Her name it is Theresa Tooley, she
Sings 'em loud

Kitty

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Alio
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 05:08 PM

Thanks for the info Carole - I'll be there definitely, and I'll pass the info on to others who may not look on Mudcat.

I spoke to Hilary yesterday (another founder member of Saddleworth Folk Festival) and we both agreed that it would be good to have an event at this year's festival in memory of Theresa - possibly the Sunday Sing which she led for several years with such joy and passion.

Ali x

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Tig
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 07:55 PM

John and I would normally make sure we got there but the weather and my health at the moment make it a 'no-go'. I'm up for a memorial day though!

We celebrated Col's life most of the summer after he died - and Treatise deserves no less.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: My guru always said
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 05:32 AM

Fab shanty Kitty!

Aha, I see there's more than one Hilary in the UK, she sounds like a good Gilie too! Have never managed to get to Saddleworth, it's a long way for the old caravan. Looks good though, maybe we'll have a think about it!

Sorry for thread creep, candle still lit for Theresa.
Hil

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: SussexCarole
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 07:33 AM

Theresa's funeral will take place on Thursday 14 January 2010. It is requested please that there be family flowers only and for those who wish, donations be made in lieu of flowers to the Motor Neurone Association either through a family member or the undertakers

The details are:

A humanist ceremony at:

Howe Bridge Crematorium Chapel      Map here
Lovers Lane,
Atherton,
Manchester
M46 0PZ                   at 1.00p.m.

and afterwards at:

Woodland Cemetery,                        Map here
City Road,
Worsley
M28 1BD                   at 2.30p.m.

Arrangements for a gathering in the afternoon after Theresa's interment at Woodland Cemetery are still in the planning stage – they will be notified as soon as possible.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Sheila China
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 08:34 AM

My thoughts will be thinking of those able to attend in UK and I also would like to attend a memorial as I decided I couldn't get back from China, so being selfish I hope if a memorial celebration is planned it is after 23rd March when I will be back and any significant snow WILL e over in UK
Here's part of the song I like to sing after a friend has died
   Here's to the friends that I've yet to make
   Here's to the friends who've eased my heart ache
   Here's to those friends past present and new
   To those now departed the thought turns anew
by Rod Shearman
Sheila

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST,Marie
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 09:47 AM

Hi All

Baring any last minute weather changes, I should be able to come across from Leeds to Manchester.

If there are any folks in Leeds, who would like to car share with me, do PM.

Can we bring any food etc for the gathering afterwards?
M

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Mrs Scarecrow
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 01:22 PM

I dont think I'll be able to make it but if a day is planned when the weather improves I would definately be up for that

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: SussexCarole
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 03:12 AM

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Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: My guru always said
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 07:38 AM

Weather seems to be improving, hope this'll help people in getting there on Thursday!!!

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Edain
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 08:35 AM

Just awaiting final confirmation that I can get the day off work but I should hopefully be there.

I'll be getting the train so can go via Leeds and then car share if that works? (can't PM as it's posted as a guest)

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Surreysinger
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 09:24 AM

I won't be able to make it due to other commitments (sadly, as I'd worked out that it was possible to make Manchester and back as a day trip from Surrey by train and would have done it that way). If there is to be a memorial event later in the year then I'd love to attend.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 09:46 AM

I have every hope of making the funeral, although more snow is forecast for Wednesday so plans could change last minute.
Gillian (Menolly)

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: elmo 1
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 03:32 PM

The weather is getting better up here beginning to thaw
we have found somewhere to go after the funeral the address is
BOTANICAL GARDENS CLUB
TYLDSLEY ROAD
ATHERTON M46 9AE
from 3pm onwards tea coffee and bar provided the club has agreed to let us do food so could all who are coming bring a plate of something plus a bit extra as we did at colins hope to see as many as possible to give her a good send off

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST,RWJ
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 04:00 PM

We will do our best to be there, and help to raise the roof at the Botanical Gardens Club,as Theresa would have done.

Ron & Carole

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST,aelfleda
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 05:08 AM

Unfortunately I won't be able to make the funeral but look forward to attending a memorial event for Theresa.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: SINSULL
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 10:35 AM

6 and 7:30 PM Mudcat time. I will be there in spirit. And I will sing one of the old songs for Theresa.
Mary

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: vectis
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 07:39 PM

I have to work on Thursday and can't get up there to the funeral. I will be thinking of her though.
A memorial sounds like a really good idea, maybe we can have one down south for her too?

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Sailor Ron
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 04:23 AM

Like so many others I am afraid I will not be able to attend [can't get time off work], but I will be thinking on her, & sing a song for her at Fleetwood Folk Club on thurs.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: karen k
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 04:34 AM

I wish I could be there. I will be thinking of Theresa a lot this week as it is her birthday today and with the funeral on Thursday. Godspeed, Theresa. "What a singing there will be" when you get home. Part of a line from a Helen Schneyer song. Sure wish Helen and Theresa could have met. Maybe they will now. Thanks for the memories, Theresa. Much love.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Marie27
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 04:39 AM

Damit

I sure hope this black ice disappears for tomorrow!

And sorry if anyone tried to PM me for a ride from Leeds - send it to this account.

Marie

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST,LTS pretending to work
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 05:24 AM

Given that we're being snowed on again, I'm not going to be able to make it up as I was hoping to.

I couldn't help but think of her in church on Sunday,as we sang 'When the Roll is called up yonder' (I've sung it many times and at least once with Theresa, but always clutching a pint mug, in a pub - never sober and in church before!)... God Speed, Theresa, there'll be a candle burning and a tot waiting for you tomorrow night.

LTS

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: SylviaN
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 07:11 AM

Keith and I have a gig in Ely tonight, but we shall be heading for Manchester from there very early tomorrow morning - weather permitting. If we don't make it, we'll join in with the send off somewhere on the road.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: My guru always said
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 07:37 AM

Wishing everyone who can go tomorrow safe journeys. We'll be thinking of Theresa with a candle lit and a glass in our hands.
Hil & Richard

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST,RedJ
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 08:21 AM

I was saddened to hear of Teresa's passing. Although I have known Teresa for a number of years and heard her sing many times my abiding memory is of her singing "Union Miner " at Cleckheaton a few years ago.
Unfortunately I wont be able to attend the funeral but I'll look out for the memorial concert.
Teresas humour and zest for singing was infectious and uplifting.
I'll raise a glass to you tomorrow Teresa.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Dave the Gnome
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 08:23 AM

I live just down the road but, unfortunately, work in Leeds, so will not be able to get there. I was hoping to book the day off but a 3 hour jurney in this morning and not arriving till 10:30 scuppered that idea:-(

Theresa was a regular at Swinton before her illness and always cheered us up with that mighty voice. She will be missed. If anyone wants a venue for a celebration of her life in the near future I can always ask at the White Lion where our club is. Just PM me.

Cheers

DeG

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 08:57 AM

Only just heard about Theresa, I am in Sheffield if I could get to Leeds station is there any chance I could get a lift over

Jan Hanmer.
email: [e-mail]
Mob: [phone]

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Dave the Gnome
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 09:07 AM

I could run you from Leeds to Manchester, Jan, but unfortunately, as I said, I will be in Leeds from 8:30 to 5 tomoorow so you would miss the funeral anyway:-( From Sheffield it is probably best to get the train direct to Manchester and then get a bus to Atherton.

Hope this helps

Dave

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST,Neardura
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 09:24 AM

Would love to be at the funeral to say goodbye to Teresa.
But sadly, weather and other commitments do not allow.
A memorial day is a great idea. Count us in for that.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: kendall
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 09:33 AM

R.I.P. Luv.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Marie27
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 09:45 AM

Hi folks

Info for anyone else interested in a ride from Leeds Train Station:

Will be picking up between 10.30-11.00. As its such a big place, lets agree to meet away from the meetng place. Head L after exiting the ticket check point, go down the slope past the ticket purchasing windows (staying within the train station). On the L-hand side is McDonalds and Subways, and on the R-hand side is window display of bridal wear. There is some seating between, and I shall meet folks there who have not been in touch. We shall be leaving promotely at 11am

By going so early, this will allow 90mins for the journey, plus a chance to get a warm drink / tidy up before heading to the funeral.

Also it hopefully allow enough time in case there are any accidents.

My number is 0772 723 1990

Marie

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Marie27
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 09:46 AM

PS I currently have 2 folks interested in a ride, so there are 2 bum spots free.
M

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Dave the Gnome
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 09:51 AM

Is that anything like spot free bums?

:D

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 201
From: Cllr
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 10:41 AM

Cant make it up due to obvious reasons, will raise a glass to her and will keep a look out for a memorial later in the year, as LtS wrote, God Speed

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: nutty
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 03:42 AM

Sadly I am not able to make it to the funeral but my thoughts will be with all those who can be there.
I know she will be given a great send off.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Pistachio
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 04:18 AM

I'm sorry not to make it today - I too will be thinking of all who send Theresa on her way in song. Hazel.x

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Micca
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 04:30 AM

I, too, will not present be in person, but I will be there in spirit to say goodbye a much loved and appreciated and memorable friend.
Micca

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: John MacKenzie
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 04:57 AM

Thinking of a brave soul.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Merek'n'Dary
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 05:36 AM

We will be thinking of Theresa and all our friends who are able to get there! We will sing a song for her at Straw Bear in our song session on Saturday.

Merek'n'Dary

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Richard Atkins
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 07:36 AM

A glass is about to be raised to Theresa.Someone so special.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST,moira(flyingcat)
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 07:47 AM

it's 12.45 and I'm here at work thinking of you all now assembling. I'm glad so many people are able to be there to give her a good send off. My voice is silently raised with yours. If there is a folky heaven she'll be having a ball. Moira

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Gillie
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 07:55 AM

I to am unable to be there, but am with you all in spirit. A candle is about to be lit. Safe journey's everyone.
Clare

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Bernard
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 08:34 AM

I cannot be physically present, but am there in spirit.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: nutty
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 10:00 AM

It should be all over now

RIP Theresa

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Morticia
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 11:09 AM

been thinking of Theresa all day, hope it went as well as these things can go.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: MoorleyMan
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 11:30 AM

Me too, Morticia. The force has been with me all day.
I'm still icebound here, but I'll definitely be raising a glass or two to her this evening. RIP Theresa.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 01:24 PM

A warm (if snowy) and wonderful send off to an old and dear friend

Tears of sadness were replaced with laughter as Theresa's coffin was carried out of the crematorium to Gracie Fields Lankie tones singing 'Wish me luck as you wave me goodbye'

Songs and personal stories in the club afterwards.

'So here's to you, and our time together.
I will share with you a parting glass,
And bid adieu with some smile and laughter,
Our time apart will be short, and pass.'

Thanks to all who helped to make this a tribute to a life that touched so many others

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 201
From: Pistachio
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 03:07 PM

Wonderful - The last laugh goes to Theresa.

Glad to hear how today went, thank you Guest??.

I too was thinking of those gathered this afternoon and will raise my glass this evening. Candle lit too.

Hazel.x

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Zany Mouse
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 04:19 PM

A long, long time ago, we were talking about Bill's funeral and funeral music. I said I wanted Wish Me Luck As You Wave Me Goodbye. She thought it was hysterical. Obviously it sank in ...

Blessings
Rhiannon

(Who now has to find a different song for her funeral - maybe Goodbyeeee, Goodbyeee, Wipe a tear etc)

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Mrs.Duck
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 04:41 PM

Well it's got to be better than my daughter's choice for me 'Ding, dong the witch is dead!'
It was a lovely ceremony full of tears and laughter just as it should have been. Theresa lives on in all our hearts and memories!

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Snuffy
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 04:58 PM

Like so many others, I just wasn't able to make it, but took time out to remember.

So many memories of that irrepressible little bundle of energy: too many to list them all, but especially with the Shellbacks in the States, and that mega-sing in the bar at Banbury (2002?) with the Shells, the Laners, etc. And here in Alcester, Theresa leading "Circle of the Sun" when one of the firemen's children was christened at the Festival church service.

Bury my body in a circle of the sun,
Circle of the sun on my dying day

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Leadfingers
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 09:24 PM

Good to see Theresa had a good send off ! There aint many like her on the scene !

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 05:15 AM

None like her!
It was a good day. A good turn out despite the weather, I think between 100 and 120 of us. Once the service had started if I caught sight of the funeral directors they had smiles on their faces. Proof that it was a celebration of a life.
I wish I had been able to stay for the sing around.
Gillian

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST,LTS pretending to work
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 07:53 AM

So how about organising a day of song for her sometime in June - something a bit further south so us down yer who knew her and couldn't get up thur to say goodbye properly can get to.

I'm happy to try and sort something in east London if people want...

LTS

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Leadfingers
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 07:56 AM

Well I can get over T'Other side easily enough Liz ! Good Idea !

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Marie27
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 08:56 AM

Great Idea

It was a very memoriable afternoon, filled with sadness, memories, laughter and song.

Does anyone have a spare copy of the service or can scan one to me please?

Thanks
Marie

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: 8_Pints
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 09:09 AM

Marie27, if you PM me with your email address I can oblige...

Bob vG

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 09:15 AM

Great idea Liz! if you need a hand let me know!

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 09:18 AM

What a memorable day for such a memorable lady, I only Knew Theresa for 4 years, but will remember her for the rest of my life. I'm not a member of the 'folk community' but certainly felt one yesterday, the singing was wonderful, and thanks Marie for enabling me to get there.

Would love to attend any memorial celebration, and buy the CD if it's made.

God Bless you all

Jan Hanmer.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Shantyfreak
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 12:53 PM

A great turnout for a great lady. We hardly felt the cold yesterday in the warmth of affection for that "grand old lady of music" From Opera to Folk by way of all the steps in between she was surely one of the great entertainers. It was hard to get through the service without tearing-up at so many many memories of her.
Well at least the "Choir Invisible" will have at least one good singer now! and speaking from personal experience she will improve the performance of all those that sing with her there.
"Go for it T!"
Jim

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Mrs.Duck
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 01:11 PM

Nice to have met you, Jan and so glad you got to experience some of what we remember Theresa for!

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: SussexCarole
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 04:24 PM

I'm now safely home after a long journey and reflecting on our tribute and farewell to Theresa. Lady in red springs to mind!    Theresa was never one to be inconspicuous and she really proved that yesterday.    A wonderful day of friendship and song

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Mrs.Duck
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 12:36 PM

I think it was the weather rather than the distance that prevented some folk from getting to the funeral. If a memorial day/weekend is to be arranged I think it is important that it be as central as possible rather than at one end of the country or another. Somewhere in the Midlands would probably be the best solution. If anyone knows a field with a pub in that area that would allow lots of folkies to descend at a reasonable cost and make a full weekend of it that could be the answer.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 03:11 PM

Good thought Jane. It was a bit of both that stopped my journey - but a Midland weekend gathering should be do-able... is the post Easter W'end any good?? Any takers for Sat 10 Apr?? Sorry NO venue idea as I'm not familiar with the area - but near the M1 would be brill.
H.x

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 03:12 PM

Sorry - Pistachio was GUEST above - Hazel.x

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Snuffy
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 07:31 PM

At the Wassail tonight I had a word with Nigel at the Fleece Inn, Bretforton, where Teresa sang on a couple of Shellbacks Cookley weekend tours, and also at Foxtrot weekends. The pub has camping facilities and a tithebarn for singing. Nigel would be more than willing to host it if a suitable weekend is available (it's in demand for weddings, etc).

PM me for contact details if you want to talk dates with Nigel

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: John Routledge
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 07:44 PM

What an awesome venue!! Hope something comes off.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Surreysinger
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 09:32 PM

Looks lovely. However, two things occur to me. Firstly,does it have public transport links of a decent nature nearby. Secondly, is the location one which has a good supply of B&B accommodation close by ? Not all of us have cars, or would wish to camp.
:-(

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 201
From: Barb'ry
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 05:49 AM

Here is the address for the Fleece. You could google it to see about accommodation etc:
The Cross
Bretforton, Evesham, WR11 7JE

It would be a great venue, Vaughan. I will pm you.

b

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Snuffy
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 06:17 AM

Surreysinger,

Not really, but that's not what Mrs Duck asked for: I merely supplied one possible answer to her specific request. Feel free to investigate alternative venues - the more the better.

Bus timetable for Bretforton. There are railway stations at Honeybourne (2.5miles) and Evesham (5.5 miles).

For B&B etc Google "B&B Bretforton" or "hotel Bretforton" or "inn Bretforton" etc

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 201
From: Carol
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 07:35 AM

There must be somewhere a bit more central although I can't think of any 'off the top of my head'. Oh there's Norwell but the pub's a bit small.
The weekend of the 9th April is Banbury Song weekend - perhaps something could happen there - someone would need to contact Merek and Dary. However it would be good to organise a whole weekend for Theresa. I'm sure Ugthorpe Lodge near Whitby would love to host a weekend but it's a bit too far north presumably. Or perhaps Alcester's song Weekend venue would suit?
How about Preston, Angie and Ken's venue, not the school but the pub where's the 4 Fools is this year?
Any other ideas?

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 201
From: Carol
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 08:33 AM

Sorry Vaughan, my geography never was very good but I should imagine Bretforton is pretty near to Alcester.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Shantyfreak
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 03:09 PM

Bretforton sounds good (and the barn has a good sound). I would be interested.
I also have an additional suggestion.
Whatever date / venue is decided upon we are not all going to be able to make it. So Yes to a Memorial Concert but why not a lot of others does as well.
For the rest of this year why don't we all remember Theresa in the way she would like best. At EVERY festival we have connections with, let's persuade the organisers to nominate one of the Sing-a-Rounds as the "Theresa Tooley Memorial Sing-a-Round" and let's all sing our favourite songs that we sang with T. That way every-one can join in somewhere.
Pass the thought on.
Jim

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: 8_Pints
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 04:02 PM

I agree with both Jim that a singaround in honour of Theresa is an eminent idea and I suspect will be actively supported by Ali O'Brian for Saddleworth FF.

Vaughan's suggestion (Snuffy) is also something I would support.

Bob vG

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: vectis
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 06:30 PM

Theresa had one of her songs sung for her at the Sussex Sing on Saturday where there were quite a few of her Sussex Shellback friends.
Sorry not to make the funeral, but she will be remembered for a very long time.
The sing "up there" is getting too many good 'uns at the moment.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST,Sue Jones
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 08:45 AM

Hi ,
I'll have a word with Marje about a Theresa sing around at Alcester at the end of February winter warmer. Sue

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: GUEST,Abuwood at Work
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 10:20 AM

This pub is very folk friendly - real ale, good room
http://www.thelockwolverley.co.uk/

This Caravan and camping club site is within walking distance
http://www.bigfreeguide.com/camping/detail/campsites/wolverley-camping/1695.html

That Puts it in the Midlands.

Ali

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Mrs.Duck
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 01:07 PM

Yes and it has a good sized room for a singaround upstairs.

Subject: RE: Theresa Tooley/treaties funeral-14 January 2010
From: Pistachio
Date: 28 Jan 10 - 04:39 PM

100 - Midlands sounds good - just hope it's not the 20thFeb? H.x