2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: GUEST,Hardiman the Fiddler
Date: 28 Nov 21 - 08:41 PM

Susan and I are speechless. We send our love and condolences.

Greg H.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: GUEST,Susanne (skw)
Date: 27 Nov 21 - 09:06 PM

Thank you for bringing this up again! Another sad loss I missed during that strange year!

Charmion, my belated condolences! I remember both of you well from Niort, and am glad to have met you. I've no doubt your good memories of Edmund are giving you strength to get on with life. All the best, and Edmund, RIP.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: wysiwyg
Date: 22 Nov 21 - 04:16 AM

(((Charmion)))

-S-

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Charmion
Date: 02 Nov 20 - 08:18 PM

Mary, Edmund got ME to behave! Seamus was a piece of cake by comparison.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Rapparee
Date: 01 Nov 20 - 09:28 PM

And to visit his ashes are pretty much the only reason I have go to Ottawa -- and when it's again safe to travel I will go there.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: GUEST,SINSULL
Date: 31 Oct 20 - 11:02 AM

Charmion, I am so sorry. Edmund was such a gentleman. Fond memories of him walking Seamus on Bonnybank Terrace. Edmund was the ONLY person who ever got that dog to behave.
Your friends in Maine are here for you.
Mary

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Ebbie
Date: 30 Oct 20 - 03:36 AM

(I don't know how I missed this.) Charmion, I am so sorry for your loss. Remember to breathe. What a year. {{{hug}}}}

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Charmion
Date: 29 Oct 20 - 07:51 PM

Oh, Dorothy — thanks for the post. I’m a long way from disposing of Edmund’s “everything”! So far, just clothing, which I can’t use and others can.

When my mother died, my Dad waited way too long to deal with her personal things, and the job just got more and more daunting until he summoned me home from university because he could not face it alone. I don’t have anyone to summon, and putting off the job will just make it worse.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Dorothy Parshall
Date: 29 Oct 20 - 07:19 PM

WOW! Well, I was off mudcat for awhile and came back to the de-clutter thread to see what folks were doing. Seemed normal until... Good heavens! There you are - methodically disposing of "Edmond's" everything! Scrolled backwards to no avail. So I pmed SRS. What a shock to the system - yours! And on Thanksgiving weekend - always a reminder. I do hope you are grieving well, in your own fashion. You have a terrific support group on MC and, others as well, I would guess. At this Covid time, everything is more difficult. But you seem to be moving forward in an extraordinarily healthy manner. You are in my thoughts as well. When all has been done that must be done and you are alone with your de-cluttered home, I trust you will reach out to people. Take care! Dorothy

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: olddude
Date: 15 Oct 20 - 11:29 PM

I am so sorry to hear this news. You and your family are in my prayers

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: GUEST,Janie
Date: 15 Oct 20 - 09:30 PM

Other than posting a brief condolences statement on FB, Charmion, I haven’t said anything.

I still don’t have the gift of comforting words. Just holding you in my heart and thoughts.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Mooh
Date: 15 Oct 20 - 06:54 AM

My condolences. I'm very sorry to hear this unexpected news.

Peace.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: The Sandman
Date: 15 Oct 20 - 03:23 AM

condolences charmion

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: robomatic
Date: 15 Oct 20 - 02:46 AM

Thank you for sharing this sad news with your mudcat friends.
May your memories of him live on and furnish both poignancy and solace as time unfolds.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Bill D
Date: 14 Oct 20 - 09:47 PM

Thanks Charmion..

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Charmion
Date: 14 Oct 20 - 06:28 PM

Edmund's obituary is now on line at this link: https://www.jarfh.com/memorials/charles-edmund-thomas/4358191/obituary.php

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: GUEST,Chris Sherrin
Date: 14 Oct 20 - 12:40 PM

Charmion,

I was Edmund's PhD supervisor. I am so sorry to hear the news. Edmund was a wonderful student and he will be missed. My condolences.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Raggytash
Date: 14 Oct 20 - 05:46 AM

My sincere condolences Charmion, I cannot imagine the pain you are experiencing at this time.

However I do know from experience that talking about him will help and the kind thoughts of other people talking about him will help.

Stay strong.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Charmion
Date: 14 Oct 20 - 03:31 AM

The obituary will appear on the funeral director’s website as well as in both the Ottawa Citizen and the Stratford Beacon-Herald. It should be up tomorrow.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: alanabit
Date: 13 Oct 20 - 02:02 PM

My condolences. This is terrible news. I hope in time that the good memories will comfort you.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 13 Oct 20 - 11:32 AM

If there is a newspaper obit, please post the link and we'll have that in the Mudcat record. Thanks!

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Waddon Pete
Date: 12 Oct 20 - 05:27 AM

My condolences to those who love and miss him. I have added Edmund to the "In Memoriam" thread. A life well lived. RIP

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: GUEST
Date: 11 Oct 20 - 07:23 PM

Edmund passed away waaaaay too young. My condolences to you, to all who miss him, and to all who are going to be missing him. May the time come soon when we can comfort you with more than just virtual hugs.

--Charlie Baum

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: KT
Date: 11 Oct 20 - 02:05 AM

Oh, Charmion, my heart is aching for you. I’m so very sorry. KT

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Phil Cooper
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 11:23 PM

Sorry to hear this, I believe I met him once when we were up at the Goderich Celtic Roots Festival.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: CupOfTea
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 11:04 PM

Very sorry to hear you've lost your best beloved in the chaos and struggle that this horrible year has been, Charmion. I can picture you both at the Getaway & that is such a good setting for a memory.

Joanne in Cleveland

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Joe Offer
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 08:19 PM

You know, I was thinking that he was a man who lived life to the fullest. He certainly was an interesting person. I enjoyed him thoroughly. Rest easy, Edmund. You did well.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: GUEST,LEJ
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 07:28 PM

Quiet, calm, kind and deliberate. He was a real gentleman and I am so sorry to see this happen.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 06:56 PM

Oh, Charmion, I am so sorry to hear this. I don't know if you remember that I, too, lost a beloved to an unexpected heart attack (in 2003), and the love and concern of Mudcatters worldwide was one of the things that sustained me. Lean on your community, here and at home, and know that you are being cared for in unseen ways. Reach out if you feel the need.

I only met Ed once, long ago in New Hampshire, and was impressed by his voice, his humor, and his kindness. My heart is with you now.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Helen
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 06:31 PM

So sad to hear your news, Charmion and Andrew. My sincere condolences from Australia.

You will be dealing with the shock of his sudden loss, so please take care of yourselves at this sad time.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Gorgeous Gary
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 05:48 PM

So sorry to hear about Edmund. Hugs and deepest condolences.

Gary

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: mg
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 05:20 PM

I am so sorry. I loved hearing your stories about his various activities.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: JennieG
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 04:50 PM

Oh no.....Charmion, I am so sorry. Sending much love.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Tinker
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 04:42 PM

Charmin, you and Edmond were always two of the folks I looked for at Getaway each year. I am stunned and saddened. Sending virtual hugs in a world that holds us apart.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Doug Chadwick
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 04:13 PM

Charmion, I am so sorry to hear your sad news. I have fond memories of meeting Edmund and you at the Niort Eurogathering in France. My thoughts are with you.

Doug

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: SussexCarole
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 03:38 PM

We're both so sorry to hear this news Charmion, our love to you and your family. We treasure memories of happy times spent with you both

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: GUEST,Steve Shaw
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 03:10 PM

Gosh, it's so hard to find words. I've become very fond of you as my kitchen ally, Charmion. My kindest thoughts are flying over the ocean to you right now.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Bill D
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 01:59 PM

Saw this earlier on Facebook.. still in shock. I've spent an hour locating pics of him from the various Getaways... will shared, send or post them when you are ready.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Joe Offer
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 01:48 PM

This is such a shock. I thought he'd live forever. I'm miss him.
Bless you, Charmion. I've always enjoyed being with the two of you.

-Joe-

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: John MacKenzie
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 01:21 PM

Oh Charmian, what an absolute bummer. Such a pleasant chap, and the first person I ever saw in a utility kilt, didn't even know they existed before then.
Thinking of you and Edmund too.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Dave the Gnome
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 01:04 PM

So sorry, Charmion. Bad enough when it's expected. This must be devastating. You are in my thoughts and, while I know it's unlikely I can help in any practical way, if you think of anything I can do to help from across the pond, just ask.

XXX

Dave

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Backwoodsman
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 12:15 PM

Sad news indeed - condolences to Charmion, family, and friends.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: MudGuard
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 11:58 AM

Charmion, I am so sorry - I found Edmund a very nice guy when we met in 2005 at Niort.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: ranger1
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 11:42 AM

I am so sorry, Charmion. He will be so missed.

Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter CET
From: Charmion's brother Andrew
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 11:20 AM

Dear Charles Edmund was a beautiful gift to my sister and a true friend to his in-laws. To his clients, he was Rumpole of the Armed Forces. To Canada, he was a barrister at arms, prepared to go into the shit and keep things legal. From Canada, to the vineyards and concentration areas of West Germany, to poor, pitiful Haiti, to downwind of the Poo Pond in Kandahar, Afghanistan, he championed, in no specific order, observance of the Law of Armed Conflict and the rights of the accused. He sang lustily (as required) and on key.

I only knew Edmund some 23 years. Damn it, I feel as if we have all been robbed.

Subject: RE: 2020 Obit: Mudcatter CET - Edmund Thomas
From: Maryrrf
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 11:12 AM

I'm so sorry, Charmion. This is awful, awful news. My heart goes out to you. Another reminder that none of us knows when we, or our loved ones, will cross the bar.

Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter CET
From: Mrrzy
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 10:47 AM

Oh how awful. Thank you for thinking of us. We will be thinking of you.

Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter CET
From: GUEST,Big Al Whittle
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 10:42 AM

very sad news. condolences. xx xx

Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter CET
From: Morticia
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 10:32 AM

My dear Charmion, I am so sorry. What a bloody awful year it has been, my best love

Terri x

Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter CET
From: fat B****rd
Date: 10 Oct 20 - 10:25 AM

Please accept my very best thoughts and condolences.
Charlie