Subject: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 01 Dec 02 - 12:58 PM OK, youse guys! I wasn't gonna start this thread 'cause it seemed kinda in poor taste (at least if you take it seriously). But that recent thread on Changing Song Titles For Aging Audiences proves that Mudcatters don't always let that be an impediment to their fun, so here goes. Some songs don't HAVE to have their titles changed for senior populations -- it's just that the songs may take on new meaning or relevance! For example, when you are doing a gig at a nursing home, you might want to steer clear of: Try To Remember Don't Fence Me In Dry Bones I Almost Lost My Mind Urge For Goin' and a few others I can't think of at the moment. Got any to add to the list? Genie |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 01 Dec 02 - 01:00 PM Oh, and it doesn't have to be the title that takes on new meaning. It can be a line such as: "...Suddenly, I'm not half the man I used to be..." or "You promised that you'd forget me not, But you forgot to remember." |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: JedMarum Date: 01 Dec 02 - 02:07 PM LOL! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 01 Dec 02 - 02:11 PM Also: Please Help Me, I'm Falling! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: JedMarum Date: 01 Dec 02 - 02:12 PM Well - it won't add to the humor of this thread, but I frequently sing Goodnight Irene to the old folks, and at regular shows. But when I sing to the old folks, if Irene don't come back to me, my tears will never run dry ... At the other shows, I don;t mind taking morphine to die - but the old folks cringe at the morphine comment! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 01 Dec 02 - 02:20 PM And in a similarly SERIOUS vein, when I sing There'll Be Some Changes Made* I change "...Nobody wants you when you're old and grey..." to "...Life is for living, so we're on our way..." or something like that! Genie *This is another title that can take on a new meaning in a nursing home. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 01 Dec 02 - 02:21 PM Just thought of another: I Wonder As I Wander |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Anita Walker Date: 01 Dec 02 - 02:39 PM How about "The Wanderer"? |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Nemesis Date: 01 Dec 02 - 04:48 PM "Has anyone seen my teeth?" |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: vectis Date: 01 Dec 02 - 05:15 PM "Ain't it grand to be bloody well dead" |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Banjer Date: 01 Dec 02 - 06:07 PM I always thought Grandfather's Clock would be a horrible thing to play for the old folks. '....and it stopped,.....short.....never to go again.....when the old man........died! Maybe not though, I guess it all depends on the audience. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: kendall Date: 01 Dec 02 - 07:15 PM Blue hairs driving in my lane |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: JedMarum Date: 01 Dec 02 - 07:22 PM I sing My Grandfather's Clock to them all the time. They love it, and many sing along. I tell them a bit about the background of the song too. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Charley Noble Date: 01 Dec 02 - 08:15 PM Kendall, that's terrible! I probably wouldn't sing "Bloody Well Dead" unless someone requested it. However, I think they'd enjoy burying "Old Stromalong," especially if we added the verse about "Throwing in stones and rocks, and we don't give a damn if we break the box!" Cheerily, Charley Noble |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Mr Happy Date: 01 Dec 02 - 08:25 PM 'ohhhh! its nice to get up in the morning- but its nicer to stay in bed!' 'maids when you're young never weed an old man' |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Willie-O Date: 01 Dec 02 - 08:36 PM Could it be that you're maybe being over-analytical here? If the repertoire is those well-loved, familiar songs, it's not going to be real shocking to any of them... Once I was at a fiddle contest, and the emcee--you know the type, real cornball all the way--called the winners of the "oldest couple" contest up on stage. They he sang "You're too old to cut the mustard" to the gent and "The old grey mare she ain't what she used to be" for the lady. Now that even I found a tad disrespectful. Talk about getting personal! Guy's name was Cletus something-or-other... W-O |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 01 Dec 02 - 09:23 PM Kendall, Charley, I sing "Grandfather's Clock" for senior audiences every year (on Grandparents' Day and on Fathers' Day, too). They don't seem to be bothered by the "old man died" line. They just think "ninety years" isn't really THAT old! *G* Mr Happy "Oh, How I Hate To Get Up In The Morning!" is a favorite among the WWII generation (as it was for their parents). And, oh, maids should be advised never to "wed an old man," too -- not just never to "weed" him! *G* But actually, folks this thread was intended to be facetious! Genie |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Mr Happy Date: 01 Dec 02 - 11:00 PM it only hurts when i laarf! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Lonesome EJ Date: 02 Dec 02 - 01:21 AM Smells like Teen Spirit? |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Jeremiah McCaw Date: 02 Dec 02 - 05:28 AM Forget the songs; I'm glad I remembered to take my bass in its gig bag instead of the hard case I bought for it. Somehow I feared the casket-shaped "Coffin Case" (really - that's the brand name) upon which I'd had an artist friend paint a white lily might not be seen in a respectful light! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Declan Date: 02 Dec 02 - 05:44 AM Myself and a Friend of mine were entertaining some old folks a while ago and my friend did "Try to Remember" - I managed to stop myself from dedicating the song to anyone suffering from auld timers disease. I know its not funny, but I think that's why we tend to laugh at it. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Sir Roger de Beverley Date: 02 Dec 02 - 06:53 AM Anything by that Mr Zimmerman might be in poor taste too! R |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Dirty Old Git Date: 02 Dec 02 - 07:35 AM I'm not allowed to sing any songs in this bloomin' nursing 'ome any more. As soon as I starts, one of the nurses blows the whistle an' they all jumps on me - Big Bertha usually sits on my kisser - which I'd enjoy if it wernt for her flatulence wot knocked me out cold last time. I woz only singing the one abaht "The 'airs on her dicky-dido 'ang dahn to 'er knees". Mindyer, Big Bertha's start well below 'er knees and go all the way upwards and when matron 'asn't shaved for a week, 'er beard goes right down 'er neck. If any of yer poncey folk clubs wants some real songs - why don't yer give me a go. That also goes for any of you young birds like that Liz the Squeak (I used to 'ave a bird wot sqeaked - but a bit of vaseline used to cure that) or that there Mrs Duck (I like girls wot ducks down) an also that PussyPiddle or whatever she calls 'erself - they all sound like real young go-ers. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: kendall Date: 02 Dec 02 - 08:40 AM I'm Heading for the last roundup. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 02 Dec 02 - 12:30 PM Declan, lots of times the nursing home and retirement home residents are the first ones to make jokes about Alzheimer's, arthritis, and even death. I can sometimes join them in the joke, since many of these folks are my parents' age, so I'm not far behind. But if I were a 20- or 30-something telling arthritis jokes, it'd be kinda like a honkie telling black ghetto jokes, I think. Genie Good one, Kendall! LOL! (That's the kind of song title I'm looking for! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 02 Dec 02 - 12:32 PM Never sing "I Can't Help But Wonder Where I'm Bound" -- or, for that matter, "I Can't Help But Wonder Why I'm Bound" in the "locked unit." |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GutBucketeer Date: 02 Dec 02 - 12:46 PM Old and in the Way See That My Grave is Kept Clean - Blind Lemon Jefferson Fixin' To Die - Dylan My Back Pages - Dylan I Want A Good Man (And I Want Him Bad) - Annette Hanshaw Get Away Old Man Get Away - Frank Crumit More later JAB |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Kim C Date: 02 Dec 02 - 12:50 PM In the movie Ishtar, which the critics hated but I absolutely loved, Dustin Hoffman's character wrote a song for some regular patrons at the restaurant where he played: I'm Leaving Some Love in My Will. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,JennyO Date: 02 Dec 02 - 12:52 PM What about "Me 'usband's got no courage in 'im", and there was a line in a song which went "I never knew what day it was----" |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Scabby Douglas Date: 02 Dec 02 - 01:24 PM Definitely not Shel Silverstein's "Still Gonna Die" Cheers Steven |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Marion Date: 02 Dec 02 - 01:53 PM Genie, I sing "Don't Fence Me In" all the time, and people seem to like it. Also, I often sing "The Gambler" which people also seem to enjoy, but I'm a little uncomfortable singing the line, "The best that you can hope for is to die in your sleep..." Marion |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 02 Dec 02 - 03:34 PM Marion, everybody, THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE A SILLY THREAD! I'm not really looking for songs that are inappropriate for nursing homes -- just song titles or phrases that have at least a double entendre in that setting (at least to the staff and many residents)! If you gave the activity director (or nursing staff) a playlist for an Alzheimer's unit that inlcluded "Urge For Goin'" "Don't Fence Me In" "The Wanderer" "Headin' For The Last Roundup" and "Try To Remember" they might have to stifle a chuckle. That's what the thread was about (sort of a sister thread to the one about changing song titles for an aging population). Genie |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Bill Date: 02 Dec 02 - 03:50 PM Get up and go by Pete Seager might just provoke a reaction. Bill (the sound) |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: X Date: 02 Dec 02 - 06:28 PM We once did "Sam Stone" at a VA hospital. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,JennyO Date: 02 Dec 02 - 07:32 PM So that the Parkinsons people don't feel left out, there was a song in the 60's called "Shaking all over", not to mention "Shake, rattle and roll". |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Strupag Date: 02 Dec 02 - 09:20 PM How about There were two in the bed and the little one said; Roll over! Andy |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 02 Dec 02 - 10:36 PM Jenny O, that's the idea! And in psychiatric units, never sing: "Do You Hear What I Hear?" Genie Strupag, I always heard that song with a lot more than only two in the bed (usually it started out with about eight and it finally gets down to two). |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: khandu Date: 02 Dec 02 - 10:49 PM Dem Bones, dem bones ,dem dry bones... My Farewell Party Oh, That Smell, can you smell that smell, the smell of death's around you. (What is the name of that Lynryd Skynyrd song?) Just Enough to Keep me Hanging On "Feel Like I'm Fixin' to Die" Rag k |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: vectis Date: 03 Dec 02 - 11:24 AM "In heaven there is no beer" That's why we drink it here |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: DougR Date: 03 Dec 02 - 01:52 PM "I'll be glad when you're dead you rascal you!" Someone told me Alzheimers isn't so bad. You meet a lot nice new people every day! DougR |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Argenine Date: 03 Dec 02 - 10:32 PM Yeah, Doug, and you get to hear new jokes every day, too! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Coyote Breath Date: 04 Dec 02 - 07:46 PM Oh Death CB |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Spreznib Date: 04 Dec 02 - 07:54 PM either best or worst, depending on the particular nursing home. Harry Nilsson got a british senior citizen's choir to sing along with him (on the album Son of Schmilsson) "I'd rather be dead, than wet my bed.....I'll tie my tie, till the day I die, but if I have to be fed, then I'd rather be dead...." |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: kendall Date: 04 Dec 02 - 09:12 PM Doug, you can also hide your own Easter eggs. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 04 Dec 02 - 09:43 PM and be your own Secret Santa, too! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Genie's Secret Santa Date: 04 Dec 02 - 11:43 PM Ah Ah ! there you go trying to sneak some clues out of unsuspecting 'catters, like poor old DougR. I'm not DougR , or M.Ted. I'm just me. Anyhow, they both play much better than I do. Here's some more songs to what I have already posted: Feed Your Frined with a Long Handled Spoon. Grandpa's getting younger every day (a song to sing) It must be swell to be laying out dead Let the Zoomers Drool Long As You've Got Your Health Never Let Your Left Hand Know What Your Right Hand Is Doing Papa's Getting Old Mama's Getting Hot. Please Don't Talk About Me When I'm Gone. Frank Crumit's "Prune Song" Shaking the Blues Away That Chick's Too Young Too Fry That's My Weakness Now (oi) Unloved and Unclaimed |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 05 Dec 02 - 12:28 AM Santa, you already posted to this thread? That'd narrow it down a bit, now, wouldn't it? BTW, "That's My Weakness Now" is a perfect one for this thread! Genie |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Genie's Secret Santa Date: 05 Dec 02 - 01:01 AM
Oh! Christmas time is coming, Christmast time is coming, It's my busiest time of year! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Jenny O Date: 07 Dec 02 - 03:55 AM " Everybody's talking at me....I don't hear a word they sayin'...only the echoes of my mind...." |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,JennyO Date: 14 Dec 02 - 12:08 PM Just thought of another one: "Try to remember" |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Amergin Date: 14 Dec 02 - 12:14 PM Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie - PM Date: 04 Dec 02 - 09:43 PM and be your own Secret Santa, too! is that what you're doing, Genie? bg |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 15 Dec 02 - 06:56 AM Do you mean am I being my own Secret Santa, Nathan? Nah. But here's another of those song titles that takes on new meaning in nursing homes: "He'll Have To go" |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST Date: 20 Jan 03 - 01:45 PM |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 20 Jan 03 - 02:00 PM That "Papa's Getting Old Mama's Getting Hot" sounds like a good 'un. I'd like to hear it. Genie |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Dave the Gnome Date: 21 Jan 03 - 08:55 AM I had some friends who were about to start singing 'Lord of the Dance' at a concert for paraplegics. Stopped themselves just in time... Slight twist on a comment above - Anything by Robert Zimmerframe;-) On a serious note one of the best songs about getting old is 'Growing old with Naome' by Ralph McTell. Another good one to find, dunno who it is by, is 'Bonny belle of Broughton'. Cheers DtG |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Tattie Bogle Date: 21 Jan 03 - 09:00 PM True story: I once phoned a Life Insurance company regarding cause of death: while they investigated my enquiry and put the phone on"hold", the unmistakable strains of Queen's "Another One Bites the Dust"!! TB |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST Date: 01 Oct 06 - 09:40 PM It's Later Than You Think! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Big Al Whittle Date: 02 Oct 06 - 04:16 AM there is this line in one version of Knees Up Mother Brown, which contains the line, "I'll saw your legs right orf!" Not one for the amputee ward.......I have found! Also in George Formby there are things in Cleaning Windows about spying on old ladies undressing..." more like 80 than eighteen.and theres another verse bout an old maid....... Okay til you get an audience full of octogenearians. the two verses together....hm. I think not. One at least has to go. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: pavane Date: 02 Oct 06 - 06:57 AM Mrs Pavane avoids "Killing me softly" |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Mooh Date: 02 Oct 06 - 07:20 AM Predecease me, let me go... Peace, Mooh. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Mooh Date: 02 Oct 06 - 07:22 AM Who was that anyway, Engelbert Humperdinck? Peace, Mooh. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST Date: 02 Oct 06 - 07:28 AM An entertainer using a karaoke machine recently visited the nursing home where I work and sang the pop song "Sexbomb". What a choice! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Splott Man Date: 02 Oct 06 - 07:37 AM I used to do a lot of geriatric wards and old peopples homes. One of my staples used to be I Gotta Woman With One Leg (by Wizz Jones & Alan Tunbridge I believe). I'd just got to the very funny verse about a glass eye, when in walked the warden, and guess what? she had one. I didn't get a return booking. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,ibo Date: 02 Oct 06 - 08:27 AM If tomorrow never comes I remember you litle boxes |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Don(Wyziwyg)T Date: 02 Oct 06 - 09:19 AM I've recently done two short concerts, one for Age Concern, and one for a local hospice. Most enjoyed songs? "Hypochondria" and "I'm Awfully Well for the Shape That I'm In". They laughed and laughed. Don T. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 02 Oct 06 - 11:15 AM One that actually would probably go over very well in many assisted living and independent retirement residences - but that I wouldn't do in a "Memory care" facility - is the parody of Tom Paxton's "Last Thing On My Mind" written as a tribute to him for his 60th birthday: I Can't Recall What Was The Last Thing On My Mind. I'm not sure I'd do "If I Only Had A Brain," though. ;-D |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Cruiser Date: 02 Oct 06 - 11:32 AM Knockin' On Heaven's Door (at least better than the alternative) The Devil Went Down to Georgia Tomorrow Never Comes Slim Whitman Beyond on Sunset Hank Williams (actually a beautiful song to sing) I Just Told Mama Goodbye Hank Williams Long Black Limousine Little Rosewood Casket Streets of Laredo (Dyin' Cowboy) |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Scoville Date: 02 Oct 06 - 11:37 AM We actually got a REQUEST at a nursing home for "Streets of Laredo". The guy said he was celebrating that he'd lived long enough to avoid dying young. Swing Low, Sweet Chariot The old woman's lament (life is a toil and life is a trouble/beauty will fade and riches will flee...) |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: SINSULL Date: 02 Oct 06 - 11:38 AM I was waiting my turn in the doctor's office when in "walked" an elderly man with one leg. He was accomapnied by a very concerned son and daughter-in-law. I have learned to recognize mischief in a man's eyes so I started chatting with him. Poor circulation and diabetes had claimed his leg. He was very frustrated at relying on other people to get around. "On the other hand" I said "now you can be a pirate." His family looked at me as if I was insane as I crooned "You can't be a pirate with all of your parts." As expected, the "invalid' cracked up laughing. Might not work in every venue but... |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Cruiser Date: 02 Oct 06 - 11:48 AM I Just Don't Like This Kind of Livin' Ole Hank I'll Never Get Out of This World Alive! Hank Slip Slidin' Away Paul Simon Slippin' Into Darkness |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: fat B****rd Date: 02 Oct 06 - 12:32 PM Warren Zevon has the line "Granpa's pissed his pants again" and The Crash Test Dummies "Someday I'll have a disappearing hairline, someday I'll wear pyjamas in the daytime" |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Cruiser Date: 02 Oct 06 - 12:40 PM What Time Do You Have to Be Back to Heaven Razzy Bailey You've Got that Leavin' Look in Your Eyes Must You Throw Dirt In My Face Charlie Louvin |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 02 Oct 06 - 12:43 PM I don't think I'd do "Old Maid In A Garret." Not sure about "I Wish They'd Do It Now." Some of the old guys I'm sure would relate, but ... |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Cruiser Date: 02 Oct 06 - 12:48 PM Waitin' On Ice Where are We Goin' From Here? When the Fire Gets Hot Your Daddy Don't Live in Heaven |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Cruiser Date: 02 Oct 06 - 01:14 PM Life Git's Tee-Jus, Don't It?____Walter Brennan or Carson Robinson Also "I'm My Own Grandpa" (Lonzo & Oscar) might get a little confusing to them elders 'cause it does for me…ugh, you don't think…nah, they ain't NEVER gonna put ME in one of those places! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Crane Driver Date: 02 Oct 06 - 06:03 PM At a folk festival many years ago, a concert was being recorded for the local hospital radio. Vin Garbutt was singing 'The Chemical Workers' Song'. He got to the chorus line "Every day you're in this place, you're two days nearer death. . ." and suddenly realised what he was singing. He kept going, but you should have seen the look on his face. Andrew |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Fliss Date: 02 Oct 06 - 06:26 PM If you think that someone at 70 might be in a residential home. That makes them 20 in 1956 at the height of Rock n Roll. Perhaps we shouldnt be singing White Cliffs of DOver with them, but Elvis numbers. I do hope they have reinvented homes or abolished them by the time Im a geriatric hippie. We should all have instruments and have a all day session in some sort of senior commune. I wonder if we will all be still contributing to Mudcat. fliss ageing hippie |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Geordie-Peorgie Date: 02 Oct 06 - 06:34 PM A couple of year ago aah did a charity gig for The Southampton Parkinson's Society and the buggaz asked for (honest)....... Shakin' All Over All Shook Up Whole Lotta Shakin' Goin' On And when aah wez playin' stuff like Jim Reeves & Don Williams one little owld wumman says tiv uz "De ye not knaah any Dire Straits?" So aah sang So Far Away and Waalk Of Life and the buggaz joined in. Aah did the gig aboot fower or five times before they decided that 'disco' wez better twice a year than live music But Great funsters aall of 'em |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Cruiser Date: 02 Oct 06 - 09:56 PM I Don't Remember Loving You___John Conlee What's Your Name (Is it Mary or Sue..)___Don and Juan Your Memory Ain't What It Used to Be___Mickey Gilley What's Your Mama's Name___Tanya Tucker Stone-Deaf, Dumb and Blind___Charlie Louvin |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: InOBU Date: 03 Oct 06 - 12:14 AM True Story: I am singing Irish ballads in an old folks home in New Jersey, lot of Irish folks there... as I am finishing up, an old dear askes me to sing "God Bless America." (I'm not big on patriotic songs... per se... ) SO I explain, and it is true, that as a Quaker I don't swear oaths, or make outward religious showing, that we Friends would not, in our faith use the expression God Bless... anything ( we don't say God Bless you when someone sneezes... ) So the old dear says... "Well you better LEARN to sing it! Hmmm lor |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Liz the Squeak Date: 03 Oct 06 - 03:55 AM Do you realise that songs from *MY* youth (that is, songs from when I was younger, not the toy boy I have tucked under the bed) include such gems as The Wombling Song - Mike Batt & the Wombles God save the Queen (and the facist regime) - Sex Pistols Sing if you're glad to be gay - Tom Robinson Grandma, we love you - St Winifred's School choir and The Floral Dance - Brighouse and Rastrick Brass Band with Terry Wogan. Anyone comes to my nursing home and sings those for me, I'm going to smack 'em with my zimmer frame! LTS |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Liz the Squeak Date: 03 Oct 06 - 04:08 AM Van Morrisons 'Precious time, slipping away'.... LTS |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Mrs.Duck Date: 03 Oct 06 - 05:18 AM Oh ye canna push yer granny off a bus Only just come to this thread. Makes a nice change to be described as a bit of a goer eh, Liz!!!!!1 |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Scrump Date: 03 Oct 06 - 05:37 AM What about the one Billy Connolly sang at the Secret Policeman's Ball? Words here |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: DaveP Date: 03 Oct 06 - 02:35 PM What about --- May the Circle be Unbroken |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 07 Oct 06 - 01:06 AM How about "Goin' Out Of My Head (Over You)?" (Maybe that's one to avoid on the psych units. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Ingrid Frances Stark Date: 07 Oct 06 - 02:31 AM I'm surprised no one has mentioned the Beatles song with the line: Will you still need me, will you still feed me, when I'm 64? Then there's a song I think was called The Very Unfortunate Man, where his bride takes off all her clothes and then various body parts... Ingrid |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Scoville Date: 07 Oct 06 - 10:27 AM I was thinking of the parody of "After the Ball" where Mary takes off her wig, false, leg, glass eye, dentures, etc., until "there was nothing left of Mary, after the ball". |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Lady Nancy Date: 07 Oct 06 - 11:16 AM A good friend of mine with a somewhat warped sense of humour wrote a wonderful song called "Botox Towers" in which he gets his own back at the nursing home now, whilst he is still able.......... I'll pressure him to let me add the lyrics and tune, cos that was self-penned too. It always goes down well......... LN |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Rasener Date: 07 Oct 06 - 05:11 PM Don't ask the residents to take their false teeth out and use them for percussion whilst you sing "Smile" |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: pattyClink Date: 07 Oct 06 - 08:15 PM We were in the middle of singing Mood Indigo in a hospice, having never really listened hard to the words before, "I'm so lonesome I could die" and "cause there's nobody that cares about me, I'm just a soul in misery", felt like an idiot singing that to someone in great pain who needs more visitors. Cross it off the list! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 07 Oct 06 - 10:07 PM Ingrid, I do sing "When I'm 64" at retirement and nursing homes. I point out that Paul was a teenager when he wrote it, so 64 must have seemed really old to him then. And then at the end, I repeat the last line several times, increasing the age till it ends with "...When I'm 104." :) A song I definitely don't sing at oldsters' residences (at least without rewriting the line in question) is "There'll Be Some Changes Made Today," which includes the line "Nobody wants you when you're old and gray." Of course, as I said, this thread was intended to be silly and focus on things like songs whose titles take on a new meaning in the context of the (frail) elderly -- songs like "Urge For Goin'." But, yeah, there are some songs that seriously ought probably to be avoided in those same settings. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,.gargoyle Date: 08 Oct 06 - 12:37 AM I smell a diaper and its all full of pooh Whoop-Dee-Doo - Whoop-Doo-Dee I smell a diaper and its all full of pee. Hand me down my walkin cane, point me to the next latrine Whoop A Doodle DooDee Doo.
Sincerely, |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: The Fooles Troupe Date: 08 Oct 06 - 09:05 PM Well, that certainly makes it in the "silly stakes", garg... |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Soldier boy Date: 08 Oct 06 - 09:44 PM What about : Will ye go lassie go Maids when you're young Look at the coffin Rolling home (for wheel-chair escapees!) Willie McBride Mothers Lament (By Elsie Houghton - narrated by John Cocking ("Uppards" CD)) Grandma (By Kevin Collier - narrated by John Cocking ("Uppards" CD) ) The Recumbent Posture (By Marriot Edgar and Stanley Holloway -narrated by John Cocking - "Uppards" CD) |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Soldier boy Date: 08 Oct 06 - 09:58 PM Also : The woman sat by the old church door.... ( A song I first heard when I was a Scout!) |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST Date: 08 Oct 06 - 10:02 PM Don't let that nasty Gargoyle spoil a perfectly fine thread.
I know GANG!!! Let's take his lyrics an make them one better.
Whoop Tee-Gee, Whoop Wee-WeeYour teeth are green... just like stale brocholi Whoop Tee-Wee, Whoop Tee-Wit Your breath smells just like a bucket of sh-t! Call the ambulance again - I am havinh an attack again. Whoop a Tilly, What silly, Whoop the tilly-dilly-DooWhap A DooWhap. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Soldier boy Date: 09 Oct 06 - 10:10 AM Also : Growing old with Naomi - Ralph McTell Ain't no grave can hold my body down/Ain't no grave gonna hold my body down - (See thread with same title here on mudcat) |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST Date: 09 Oct 06 - 11:51 PM Good idea Mr. Guest no one wants a gargoyle making fun of old, fat, crippled, non-gardening, fat folks from Colorado. So, here is MY verse:
I've got a party here in my pants. Whoop T Dee, Whoop T Dumb Sit on my lap... You ain't feeling my thumb. Whoop T Deedle, Dee, Dum, Bun. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,.gargoyle Date: 09 Oct 06 - 11:54 PM SCORE - 100 poster!!!! Ring Up 100,000 requent flier miles.
Sincerely,
should one take payment in United, Delta, or Camsco records...one is in default....the other two tetter-tottering. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: The Walrus Date: 10 Oct 06 - 03:11 AM The Parting Glass? W |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Tattie Bogle Date: 10 Oct 06 - 07:42 PM Tom Paxton again - "Can't help but wonder where I'm bound". From "Steady boys, walk on" - "this will be the last trip home". And Adam McNaughtan "You're all gonnae die". |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: The Fooles Troupe Date: 11 Oct 06 - 08:33 AM Why does brocoli look like a cartoon fart? |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,steve benbows protege off line Date: 11 Oct 06 - 04:16 PM What about "Burn Baby Burn" or the crap song "The only way is up" |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Genie Date: 24 Oct 06 - 04:31 PM Can't Help But Wander, So I'm Bound |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: SharonA Date: 24 Oct 06 - 06:52 PM "I Don't Look Good Naked Anymore" |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: oggie Date: 25 Oct 06 - 04:26 PM Tom Paxton again 'Forest Lawns'. 'Life is a Lemon (and I wantmy money back)' Meatloaf (or 'Bat out of Hell') All the best oggie |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST Date: 22 Jan 19 - 02:09 AM My Way Auld lang syne I'll be home for Christmas. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Joe Offer Date: 22 Jan 19 - 03:39 AM I've found nursing home audiences to be very enthusiastic. They don't seem to be fussy about anything - songs that mention death and old age are fine with them. They do seem to prefer songs that they know, songs that spark a memory. In the first message, Genie listed
Don't Fence Me In Dry Bones I Almost Lost My Mind Urge For Goin' -Joe- |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Andiliqueur Date: 22 Jan 19 - 04:44 AM I remember feeling very uncomfortable singing "All my Trials Lord soon be over" with my choir at a nursing home. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Grishka Date: 22 Jan 19 - 06:10 AM Some years ago is was in the news that a nursing home had banned "My Way" (from its collection of vinyl disks?), arguing that it made the inmates depressive. The worst problems are not being old facing death, but being suggested that they (we)
Once I had the problem of selecting autumn songs. Almost all those I found talked about relaxing towards the end of one's life - this is not the right idea! Farmers nowadays know that there is work all year. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: wysiwyg Date: 22 Jan 19 - 06:46 PM Our nursing home gigs have had universal success with the blues, for both secular gigs and church services there. They are the first-requested, each time we've returned. Built for Comfort is big with elders! ~S~ |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Dave D Date: 22 Jan 19 - 07:04 PM well outside the folk idiom, but - The Jam's Going Underground :) |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Joe_F Date: 22 Jan 19 - 10:08 PM The Revel: Then stand to your glasses steady. This world is a world of lies. Here's a sip to the dead already And a cup to the next that dies. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Tunesmith Date: 23 Jan 19 - 10:31 AM Catherine Tate is a much loved British comic actress/performer. here she is talking about performing to pensioners. No pleasing those old folk! |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,Jerry Date: 24 Jan 19 - 04:56 AM Has anybody mentioned ‘Old Friends’? That line “how terribly strange to be seventy” must be a bit disturbing when you’ve now got children nearly that age. |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: GUEST,.gargoyle Date: 24 Jan 19 - 06:32 PM I believe "Happy Trails to You" ... is one of the most recognized from radio dramas. Two times, in the last 15 years, it has been sung at "alternative funerals." Sincerely, Gargoyle |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: wysiwyg Date: 24 Jan 19 - 06:38 PM My partner Greg sez his blues requests are neck and neck for "... But she gave me gasoline..." |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: wysiwyg Date: 24 Jan 19 - 08:10 PM Here's one right on that fine line: https://youtu.be/HoRNN8kJ0AU |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: The Sandman Date: 25 Jan 19 - 03:30 AM hes old and only in the way https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFF4ANolpAc |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Long Firm Freddie Date: 25 Jan 19 - 06:09 AM John Shuttleworth's "God's Waiting Room": "This is going out to my brothers and sisters Well it would do if they still existed But they're all dead now and I'm all alone All alone in a residential home" God's Waiting Room LFF |
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes! From: Neil D Date: 25 Jan 19 - 06:22 AM Harry Nilsson had a song on his "Son of Schmilsson" album called "I'd Rather Be Dead". The chorus line being I'd rather be dead than wet my bed, on which the Senior Citizens of the Stepney & Pinner Choir Club No. 6, London, England provided backing vocals. |
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