BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?

Subject: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 05:33 PM

Just got a Christmas card from a friend. He included the latest pictures of his two sons. One is a happy-go-lucky and thoroughly lovable pre-hormonal cutie. The other is the disaffected, long haired, glaring and thoroughly sexy Bad Boy. Sigh - at fourteen I would have found him irrestible! Actually having a tough time right now.
Tristan and Michael have grown up. And here comes adolescence. HA HA Better you than me!
Spaw, they are beautiful!
Love,
SINS

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 05:34 PM

Maybe irresistible? Damned if I know!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: John MacKenzie
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 05:39 PM

I know somebody with a son called Tristan !
G

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Bill D
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 06:17 PM

The 'bad boys' get the same attention from girls as the cute little airhead blonds do from guys....perhaps they deserve each other.

When I was a skinny, gawky teenager, I always resented the 'charismatic bastards' as I called them. I was always hearing how 'so & so' had treated some girl badly, and I never quite understood why the girls kept falling for them. Now, after 50 years of observing, I'm glad I was what I was.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Little Hawk
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 06:55 PM

Girls fall for the Bad Boys because they like having a challenge. They enjoy the sense of risk.

I hated those charismatic bastards too. Next time around I might try being one of them. ;-)

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Peace
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 06:57 PM

Same reason the boys fall for the Bad Girls.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Little Hawk
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 07:02 PM

Hell of a good point there, Peace! ;-)

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Sorcha
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 07:20 PM

They can't grow up! It's not allowed!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cruiser
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 07:50 PM

Sex

I had a nice, religious, faithful married woman tell me bad boys are "forbidden fruit" and that is the big draw. She was strongly drawn to "one", was very tempted, but would not cheat because of love and respect for her husband.

Some women want to be "treated" like a bad girl by a bad boy, with dirty pillow talk and all, in the privacy of a bedroom while they want to be a Madonna outside of that privacy.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 08:02 PM

Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?

To piss off Mommy and Daddy and impress their friends.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 08:09 PM

Bikers always get the fun good looking babes.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 08:16 PM

Every prick I knew was never alone at closing time.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 08:18 PM

Beautiful losers.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: kendall
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 08:47 PM

One gets what one expects.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 10:10 PM

AAAAAAARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
DId ANYONE read my post?????????????????

Catspaw sent me pictures of his sons. Michael is in that "stage" and in his school picture he looks like the boy Dad never let me date.

Tristan is handsome and gentle looking - not a bad catch either.

Auntie SINS

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Peace
Date: 23 Dec 06 - 10:43 PM

I did. I figured that sooner or later it would go CLICK without me pointing it out. LOLOLOL

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Little Hawk
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 12:57 AM

I read it too, but then we got off on some other interesting subjects.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: freda underhill
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 02:23 AM

Unfortunately, voters find them irresistable too!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: kendall
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 08:49 AM

I scored "1" on the test.

It's been my experience that mature women are attracted to the opposite type of male.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: 3refs
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 08:55 AM

Why was I a bad boy?

Later one this one too!!!!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST,jaze
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 09:24 AM

Probably because like bad girls, bad boys have more fun.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Sorcha
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 09:55 AM

So, like, could we ALL see a pic of this grown up Bad Boy????

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: jaze
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 09:58 AM

I think Colin Farrell is a grown up example.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 10:01 AM

I will try to scan both pictures and give the ladies a taste.

I scored 0 on the test. But they are wrong. I would not go through boiling oil to vote for Hillary.

How did this turn into a political thread?

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cruiser
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 10:15 AM

I scored a 0. If there was a negative 10 to the 6th power that would be a better indication of my dislike for Bush.

Thinking of another great BUSH:

How about someone starting a thread about Bad Girls (hint Dipwallow!)

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: wysiwyg
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 10:28 AM

Why are the Bad Boys so irresistable?

Because little girls are still so conditioned to be "good" little girls, and when they get old enough, they rebel?

Because women are taught we can love someone "enough" to make them better?

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 10:31 AM

Somebody PLEASE read the intro! I am begging you!!!!!!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: wysiwyg
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 10:36 AM

Read it, but you did ask a question in your thread title. Trying to control the discussion? :~)

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Skivee
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 10:39 AM

Sinsull...just to give you some well deserved peace of mind:
I'm glad to hear that Spaw's kids are growing up with varying degrees of baditude and cutelism.
Any luck with scanning the photos?

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 11:05 AM

Not yet, Skivee. I can scan and create a jpg but can't link it to the thread. I have pictures of the boys since the age of nine (they were nine, not me). This year they are both young men. Amazing how fast it happens. I also have cartoon characters created by Michael. Wonder if he is keeping up his artwork?
Hope Spaw checks in soon. I would also like an update on Cletus, Paw and the Reg Boys, the ultimate Bad Boys to whom I am not attracted.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 12:19 PM

We all read it, Sinsull. So what? We haven't seen the picture you're talking about so we have no comment on it. We're commenting on the question asked in your thread title. Sorry if that sours your pee.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Tweed
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 04:12 PM

Yaz Sinz, I enjoy the television show "Cops" and it's farly irdesistable as is the top ten hit "Bad Boys" theme song, as I find myself dancing about whenever it comes on and no it's time for the program to startup. I hed no idea that it wabz a folk type song and evidencely has been around for some time priory to the advention obv the TV.

I hope Spaw will let us know when the episode whar his house is raided come on and hopefully the censors will blurr-out his underwear if they drag him outta the house late at nite.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 07:47 PM

That's Spaw in his shorts and boxers with a gun

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Alice
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 07:53 PM

I think it is the "challenge" of getting someone bad to love you. It's a common mistake made in youth and people usually learn the lesson about it as they get older. Men are challenged by rescuing problematic women and women are challenged by rescuing (or catching) problematic men. It is a recipe for disaster, but most often it takes experience to learn that lesson.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: MAG
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 08:13 PM

Because literature and pop culture are full of the sweet maid getting the outlaw in the end.

Ain't true; never was.

And when you're 14, arrogant is for some godawful reason sexy.

And then there are the Don Juans who are good in bed. It's amazing how long a woman will hang around in spite of herself.

I assume thr reverse is also true.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Bernard
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 08:53 PM

'Bad Boys' trigger attraction in women and girls, because subconsciously they see them as 'Alpha Males' - the ideal mate for procreation.

Men who understand (either consciously or subconsciously) how to work that are succesful with women, those of us who haven't a clue have no success at all...

Ho hum.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cruiser
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 09:20 PM

Bernard, you are correct from a biological standpoint.

The troubling aspect is women have evolved the ability to know, understand, and reason what they are up against, but remain "weak" to the allure.

Hey, if women want to remain second-class to men forever, then those "bad boys" will always have women under their thumb, so to speak. That is one reason why domestic violence is so prevalent.

We have all seen many intelligent women succumb to primal sexual urges at the expense of family, friends, and self-respect.

It angers me so many women are still so weak and accept subservience in this modern world when it could be their "oyster".

I expect a barrage of negative comments from what I stated.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Alice
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 10:12 PM

I think you are right.
Added to primal urges are the patterns of childhood, if rejected by brothers or father, a girl wants to get love and acceptance from the most challenging guys. Trying to win over and prove we are lovable is re-enacting the situation of childhood where we were rejected in our family.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cruiser
Date: 24 Dec 06 - 10:21 PM

Alice,

That was a refreshing reply. I am sure you understand what I am saying, evidenced by your 2 posts, much more than I do.

Thank you.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST,punkfolkrocker
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 12:09 AM

bad boys are only as bad

as 'good' girls secretly fantasize about being naughtiest an dirtiest for them..


i'm a happily married middle aged good boy..

but because i am rare limited edition fit and strong & athletic for my age..


i always need to beware of good
[secret naughty dirty middle aged women]
transfering their XXX fantasies on me ..!!!??


i'm being serious.. not boasting..

the wife says she thinks its funny and perversly flattering for her..


i'm just a bloke...


i prefere being promiscuous with new guitars
to strange neurotic women at my age..

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Scoville
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 12:49 AM

I scored a 0. But I also think Colin Farrell is unspeakably skanky, if that adjective can be applied to men.

"Hey, if women want to remain second-class to men forever, then those "bad boys" will always have women under their thumb, so to speak. That is one reason why domestic violence is so prevalent."

That's pretty simplistic. I hate to, uh, succumb to your expectations of barrage-ment, but women are second-class to men because for centuries they have been discouraged and opposed in finance and education. Even battered women who want to leave very often do not because they do not think they can survive financially without their husbands. Women who do not grow up in supportive households are less likely to have the education and job skills to support themselves, and controlling men use this to keep them in check.

Some educated women do stupid things when hormones kick in. Many uneducated women do not. I'm somewhere in the middle and I've certainly never fallen all over myself for some guy. Not that I don't like men. I don't even dislike "bad boys", although I go more for an unconventional streak than outright "badness". If that means he has tattoos that don't show when he's in office clothes and drives a rat rod on weekends, fine.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 01:32 AM

The need to get fucked is a drive on both sides of the fence. Don't be so quick to attribute it to hormones. That is like denying that you have any control over it. This thread has degenerated into street corner psychology, and people put their spin on it to suit their own purpose. It gets old really fast. As do people.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST,Mr Red
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 03:40 AM

As a teenager I was pretty shy and didn't come into my own until at least 10 years later. However in my thities and divorced and in desperate need to claw back two years of my life ................

Oh I was good ...... mostly.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Divis Sweeney
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 05:22 AM

I never knew any bad boys.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: catspaw49
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 10:00 AM

LOL.....I haven't enjoyed a thread going off like this one since Rick was around. Rick could creatively name a thread then explain it in his post and then watch it go off somewhere with his mouth hanging open!

The only thing I will say at this point is "Thank You" Sins.....on several different levels. Michael had such a great day yesterday and every day is getting better.......smiled and laughed, joined in, played games, made a few jokes, talked trash with his older cousins on their level and held his own.........fun day. Dad and Mom have ceased to be the enemy but he has retained a bit of the flavor from this last period and we'll see how he takes it into the next.

Sins, if you can figure how to get someone to read the post and every post after that before they post themselves, let me know..........seem to be getting worse but it's always been a pet peeve. Beware the creative and catchy thread title as you would the Jabberwock.

Spaw..........goes off chuckling

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 10:16 AM

I have given up, Spaw. It's really not important anyway. How bad can it be to remind someone of Rick?

I have been musing over all the Bad Boys I have known. It is always fun to watch women react to them. Pheremones, maybe?

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cruiser
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 10:28 AM

That would be pheromones. Sinsull opened the door with her title. I read the original post and I try to read all posts before I post. This is simply a spin-off of the initial post.

If the thread can get Spaw and others to chuckle then it is worth the effort. The subject is an interesting one anyway. Sinsull just perpetuated the discussion with her last post.

This is a good thread regardless of the initial intent. It actually serves several purposes while many threads serve no purpose.

Hey, Sinsull are you a real blood-related Auntie?

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Alice
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 10:41 AM

It annoys me that people want to put straightjackets on threads. In real life, discussions range widely and subjects wander and that is a GOOD thing.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Wolfgang
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 12:06 PM

Murderers, rapists, assaulters and other criminals sire more kids than the average male.

Wolfgang

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 03:38 PM

We all bear the Mark of Cain.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: katlaughing
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 04:43 PM

Jaysus, Sins! The blizzard in Denver kept the pix from getting to me, yet. I'll let ya know what I think when they get here! I've got a 3 year old's bad boy piccie I'll put up in the next day or two.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 04:47 PM

Well, that's just wrong.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Little Hawk
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 05:35 PM

I don't particularly care who sires more kids than the average male... ;-)

But it's not surprising.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: kendall
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 07:37 PM

Is that why the world is going to hell?

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 07:46 PM

So says the guy who sired Shane from Blind River.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: katlaughing
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 07:53 PM

Here ya go, Sins, not exactly what you're talking about, but this is one "kewl dood" in my book: Grandma's "Bad Boy".

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Sorcha
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 10:03 PM

Dear Lords and Ladies! He STILL looks like Uncle Colin!!! Even with the shades!!!! (and he's cute too!)

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 10:12 PM

Miss Kitty,
My heart is going a-pitter a-patter. Definite Bad Boy in the making.


Cruiser,
Everyone from Tristan to Seamus the Dog knows me as Auntie SINS. And I apologize for the typo - my third today. DOH!

Wolfgang - where did you get your statistics????

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: number 6
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 10:18 PM

Cluin ... isn't that the same guy who sired Chongo from Chicago?

biLL

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 25 Dec 06 - 11:29 PM

Yes, biLL. He must be stopped.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: kendall
Date: 26 Dec 06 - 04:33 PM

Good girls go to heaven. Bad girls go everywhere.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST,Shimrod
Date: 26 Dec 06 - 05:46 PM

In one of my favourite episodes of 'The Simpsons', Lisa falls for a 'bad boy'. Marge lectures her daughter, in the car, on the way home.
She says something like the following: "Lisa, some women will tell you that you can't change a man ... but those women are WRONG! Why, when I first met your father he was an uncouth, drunken slob ..."

Someone connected with 'The Simpsons' has a very accurate grasp of feminine psychology!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: kendall
Date: 26 Dec 06 - 07:26 PM

LOL !!!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST,Cruz
Date: 26 Dec 06 - 09:08 PM

Now That was funny...and right on.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Elmer Fudd
Date: 26 Dec 06 - 10:07 PM

Can't resist:


"When I'm good I'm very good. But when I'm bad I'm better."   --Mae West

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST
Date: 26 Dec 06 - 10:10 PM

Cute.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST,punkfolkrocker
Date: 26 Dec 06 - 10:29 PM

maybe i would have more 'fun' in life

if i was anyway near as bad as some local 'nice' women imagine me to be..

[sure could make a few much needed ££$$ if went into business servicing the fantasies of middle aged middle class women
arts and music culture managers
high up in the colleges and art institutions where i live..]

.. but i'm too happy staying at home watching DVDs & cuddlin' with the mrs....

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST
Date: 26 Dec 06 - 10:33 PM

You are on the right thread for that.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 12:43 AM

Marge Simpson is a wise woman but Homer just isn't my idea of a Bad Boy. James Dean on the other hand had it down to a science.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 10:30 AM

Ummmm... okay.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Alice
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 11:18 AM

It is interesting for me to look back at school days and youth and how, as a good girl, high grades, modest clothes, kind, etc., I was invisible to the boys. When I became more edgy in college, I got more attention from the boys. Guess it goes both ways. Why do bad boys AND girls seem more attractive?

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 11:21 AM

Because you know they'll have sex with you without a lot of hassle.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 11:21 AM

And most probably oral.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 11:33 AM

'Bad boys' and 'bad girls' are only called that by people who are wary/envious of their ability to show individuality. In the way they dress, the way they think and the way they grab life by the horns and indulge in being alive. Remeber these are usually teenagers - no they don't have it all down to a fine art but they are confident enough to make mistakes and grow.

Nothing more unattractive than teenagers who look like mini me versions of their parents, sneering at their contemporaries and letting life pass them by in their home knits.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 11:34 AM

Unless it's those trapped in rebellion trying hard to be the exact opposite of their parents. Either way, they're are influenced to an unhealthy degree.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST,Cruz
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 11:41 AM

Alice,

You answered your own question "attractive". Sex is what life is all about; sexual attractiveness. What man or woman would not give up all they had, and some have, to be with their ideal mate?

As an older man who has been lucky in life, intelligence far outweighs everything else when it comes to importance. I have been with and known women, who had brains, ruin their reputations because of a rowdy romp or two in bed with bad boys. Bad boys talk because that is all they really have to offer in life. A woman's intelligence and sweetness is more important than anything else is, including her sexual prowess.

I learned the hard way that it is best to take a flat-chested brainy real woman any day over a buxom, airhead girl..


The song:

"If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife and for my personal point of view get an ugly girl to marry you".

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 11:54 AM

But just who ARE the bad boys and girls really?

In my youthful experience, if you wanted to get lucky, you took out the daughter of the really churchy parents. The best candidates were the daughters of ministers or Xtian missionaries. Get `em away from Daddy and Mommy and they wanna party dirty. Word of warning... lock up the booze first. They'll drink ya dry and you're stuck holding their whining head as they puke their guts out. No sense of moderation... my kinda people.

I'm talking about my younger days, of course. My tastes are much more refined now. I like to talk too, now. (Maybe because I'm not good to go again in 30 seconds like I used to be) ;)

And I roomed with 2 different minister's sons in University. One was a bonafide slut (nicknamed Elmer... Elmer Studd) and the other was the biggest pothead I ever met (nicknamed Cargo.... as in "dead weight").

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 11:55 AM

Farm girls were good bets too.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST,RedVines
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 12:04 PM

When asked during an interview to describe the perfect man,
an actress (can't remember who...) responded "a biker who writes poetry"

oh well... I had to sell my Harley, and I'm not a very good poet.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 01:15 PM

Cluin you are so right. At my convent school the two girls who mysteriously disappeared at age 16 ( pregnant) were both holier than thou butter wouldnt melt in their mouths types.And both from upstandingly naueseous families quick to cast the first stone at every opportunity.

The 'bad girls' knew how not to get pregnant.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cruiser
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 10:49 PM

SINSULL, Thank you for the explanation.

Also, I bet I can out-typo you any day!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 10:50 PM

The 'bad girls' knew how not to get pregnant.

Yes. Blowjobs.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST,slightly naughty boy
Date: 27 Dec 06 - 11:20 PM

girls just wanna have fun !!!!!





.. all women are dirty little minx's

when presented with enough excitement, opportunity, devilment, and alchohol..


..well anyway..

..thats what my mum warned me when I left home
to go to University..

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Barry Finn
Date: 28 Dec 06 - 01:49 AM

"I learned the hard way that it is best to take a flat-chested brainy real woman any day over a buxom, airhead girl.."

WRONG!!!!

Bad Boys love women, all types of women, period! They will treat them all like the Queens that they are. A real bad boy will still treat them like Queens even if they're not sexually attracted to them, it's their nature to be different, it's their nature to do what's not expected of them & it's their nature to be fair to those that others would walk by, after all it's only natural because they've been unfairly played themselves. They will play rough if they're pushed & be as gental & soft as a lamb when asked & you don't really have to ask. Most aren't even bad boys they just know that they'll be picked by the good, the bad & the....... rest, everyone wants them on their team & they know it. They love to live & live to love, they'll prove loyal long after they've been left & they'll remain true long after they've been lied too. They live on the edge & have developed a sense fine balance when it comes to walking a fine line & not only will they talk the talk but they'll walk it too. Just when you think that they're the animal that shouldn't be taken out of the jungle, wham, you turn around & you're the one whose at home with them in the jungle wishing that they weren't as tame as they really are.

I'd say that the same goes for the bad girls too.

Geeze, if I weren't married & a guy I think I'd start looking out for a bad boy for myself, kind of tempting.

Barry

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST,punkfolkrocker
Date: 28 Dec 06 - 02:04 AM

errrmm.. i know this is supposed to be a folk music forum..

but fuck it !!..


now we're talking real   


rock 'n' roll !!!!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 28 Dec 06 - 06:55 PM

So GUEST of 10:50PM your definition of a Bad Girl is one who gives blow jobs? You don't get out much, do you?

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cruiser
Date: 28 Dec 06 - 06:58 PM

SINSULL,

You are one brave woman Ma'am!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST
Date: 28 Dec 06 - 06:59 PM

So GUEST of 10:50PM your definition of a Bad Girl is one who gives blow jobs? You don't get out much, do you?

It's how they avoided pregnancy. Read your thread.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: kendall
Date: 28 Dec 06 - 07:48 PM

Definition of virtue: Insufficient temptation.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: katlaughing
Date: 28 Dec 06 - 07:53 PM

Hey, Sins, I got the pix today. I see exactly what you mean. Cuties, both of them, but M. certainly has the Bad Boy look down, doesn't he?

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Bill D
Date: 28 Dec 06 - 09:32 PM

there certainly are a bunch of folks here who have learned the art of 'generalizing' from a few instances. *grin*

"Farm girls were good bets too."

"... both from upstandingly naueseous families..."

"...it is best to take a flat-chested brainy real woman any day..."

What is it with trying to develop a formula for identifying potential 'partners'? (meaning someone who will jump into bed easily)
   If that's all you are looking for, they are not hard to find, but the formula needs to be "how to go places and do things that will identify those who are genuinely compatible with you....above the neck, as well as below the waist!"

Ah, well....I guess I am not facing the reality of what hormones DO......still, "notches on the belt bedpost" ARE a conversation starter...

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: kendall
Date: 28 Dec 06 - 09:55 PM

Stereotypes afford us the luxury of not thinking. However, eventually they will extract the PRICE of not thinking. (Jean Harris, author of Stranger in two worlds)

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Bill D
Date: 28 Dec 06 - 09:57 PM

yep, Kendall...you say it so succinctly.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: SINSULL
Date: 28 Dec 06 - 10:11 PM

"It's how they avoided pregnancy"
When? 1956?

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Wolfgang
Date: 29 Dec 06 - 06:27 AM

SINSULL,
the statistic was quoted from memory. I'll have a look and post if I refind it.

Wolfgang

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST
Date: 29 Dec 06 - 08:43 AM

I met a girl at a student party.

Within less than 2 hours we were in bed together.


25 years later, we are still together and married.

So were we very bad good , or very good bad young boy & girl !?

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: dianavan
Date: 29 Dec 06 - 03:11 PM

Because there is a hint of dangerous adventure.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Amos
Date: 29 Dec 06 - 03:18 PM

Sex is what life is all about; sexual attractiveness


While the evolutionary imperative is certainly compelling, and mating quality and quantity is definitely part of that equation, I would like to believe that some of us have enough brains to not be driven purely by the biomechanics of reproductive possibility in life. It is just possible that there are other goals of merit beyond mere "self+sex=future" calculations which any arthropod could master.

A

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Bill D
Date: 29 Dec 06 - 06:45 PM

"So were we very bad good , or very good bad young boy & girl !?"

You were a very fortunate young boy & girl. Think of all the kids who end up in bed after a party and regret it a LOT later.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: JennyO
Date: 29 Dec 06 - 11:39 PM

When I was 21, I fell for a James Dean lookalike who very much fitted the "rebel without a cause" syndrome. I did come from a very repressed religious background, and I suppose there was a feeling of "you and me against the world" about it, but anyway, we fell in love and got married. I'm sure my parents thought I was doing it to rebel, and it certainly was good to get away from that atmosphere, but that wasn't my reason at the time - at least not on a conscious level.

Unfortunately it turned out that he had a huge chip on his shoulder about many things, including the fact that he 'had' to keep rescuing his alcoholic father. For some reason he blamed his mother for all of this, and this seemed to develop into a hatred and anger towards all women. In the end his anger ended up being focused on me because I was there and I was a handy punching bag. After years of abuse, I finally got up the courage to leave, and I've never looked back.

If I knew what made the Bad Boys so irresistible, I might not have got so sucked in. A lot of us have been there and done that. It can defy all logic - all I can think of is that it is an animal magnetism. The post further up about the alpha male came close, I think. No matter how smart and educated we women are, there is a part of us that can betray us and let us down. It seems to have less power over us as we get older - although not always. I think we always need to be vigilant. As far as I'm concerned though - NEVER AGAIN!!!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 29 Dec 06 - 11:47 PM

Not just to get 100. Honest.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 30 Dec 06 - 12:04 AM

And a bad girl I like.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: JennyO
Date: 30 Dec 06 - 12:11 AM

Not just to get 100. Honest.

Just as well Cluin, cos you didn't get it. I did. Small but dangerous eh? I must say he does look rather bad. Who is he?

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 30 Dec 06 - 12:17 AM

Atta girl, JennyO. Rub it in!

Bad girl.





I don't know who the kid is, but he reminds me of my nephew a lot.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: JennyO
Date: 30 Dec 06 - 12:29 AM

;-)

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: kendall
Date: 30 Dec 06 - 08:21 AM

Just another foul mouth no talent wannabe.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: GUEST,punkfolkrocker
Date: 30 Dec 06 - 09:40 PM

i just looked in the mirror and scared myself..

bad.. or just misunderstood.. !!???


phew.. i'm glad i'm not let out much by the mrs..





serious note:



tomorrow is new years eve..


i know i could go to any pub in town..


stand quietly in a corner..


and eventualy be chatted up by aggressively drunk females..


[errrmm.. and the odd bloke..!!!!???]


still seems to me that 'bad' is in the mind of the beholder.....



.. not boasting or deluded.. just very fit & muscly for my age ..



anyway i'm staying home tomorrow night and probably getting very drunk watching historical epic DVDs


[hhhmm.. 'Troy' or 'Carry on Cleo']..



..and when the mrs retires to bed.. internet forums be warned...!!!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: number 6
Date: 30 Dec 06 - 09:47 PM

Sarah Silverman .... such a sweet looking girl, but sooo bad. I can't help but love her.

biLL

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Sorcha
Date: 30 Dec 06 - 10:09 PM

We still ain't got no pitcher!!!!!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Peace
Date: 30 Dec 06 - 10:31 PM

Here ya go.

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Sorcha
Date: 30 Dec 06 - 11:26 PM

Aw, dagnabit, Peace, you is so baaaaaddddd! Come on Sinsalot, Flickr On babe!

Subject: RE: BS: Why are the Bad Boys so irresitible?
From: Cluin
Date: 02 Jan 07 - 05:07 PM

kendall, you don't even know my nephew.