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Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements

30 Dec 08 - 11:05 AM (#2527437)
Subject: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST,Pete Fletcher

Richard's funeral has been arranged for Wednesday 7th January. 15.00 hrs at Haltemprice Crematorium.
Afterwards at Hodgeson's in Beverley (that's the pub just next to the festival campsite)

The Crematorium is on Main Street Willerby. The entrance is signed from the A164 Beverley - Willerby road just south of the Castle Hill Hospital complex.

Map here
http://getamap.ordnancesurvey.co.uk/getamap/frames.htm?mapAction=gaz&gazName=g&gazString=TA023315


30 Dec 08 - 04:07 PM (#2527735)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: Tyke

Thank you I shall try to make it!
George


31 Dec 08 - 08:36 AM (#2528210)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: old git

Pete,
Have Jean and Lisa indicated any preference with regard to dress ,ethos etc.at funeral and/or afterwards.

geoff


31 Dec 08 - 12:01 PM (#2528349)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST,Bren to Geoff (and Phil and Gem)

Jean just rang me. She didn't mention dress code or anything. Just that it's family flowers only - they've chosen lilies for his Mum, Marguerita daisies for Lisa to remind her of the daisy chains he made her when she was little,and white roses for Yorkshire. There will be a collection for cancer charities. Olly is conducting a non-religious 'service', which quote "should make us cry". Not much chance of anything else is there. She also said that he wanted everyone to sing and play him out and be cheeerful.

It's sad that it's taken something like this to hear from old friends. Phil love to Carol, and Gem remember me to Steph, and I'm glad to see a message from you and that you re not the Gerry Cooper who I saw obits for.


02 Jan 09 - 09:12 AM (#2529563)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: Sir Roger de Beverley

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02 Jan 09 - 04:13 PM (#2529927)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST


02 Jan 09 - 07:20 PM (#2530082)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST,Pistachio

Back to the top
Hazel.x


03 Jan 09 - 08:12 AM (#2530364)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST,old git

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03 Jan 09 - 09:33 AM (#2530396)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST

Have heard of quite a few people planning to attend.


04 Jan 09 - 03:01 AM (#2530990)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: ossonflags

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05 Jan 09 - 04:04 AM (#2531850)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: Sir Roger de Beverley

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05 Jan 09 - 04:28 AM (#2531862)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: Brian Peters

I can't make it but would like to at least send a card. Would that go to the Sutton Park address (the one I have for Richard on my database)?


05 Jan 09 - 09:18 AM (#2531974)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST

Yes, that's still their address.


05 Jan 09 - 03:11 PM (#2532270)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: Pistachio

Keep this near the top.
H.


05 Jan 09 - 04:45 PM (#2532345)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: ossonflags

ok.


06 Jan 09 - 05:20 AM (#2532694)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: del boy

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06 Jan 09 - 12:33 PM (#2533025)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST

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06 Jan 09 - 04:21 PM (#2533369)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST,Wendy and Bob Bolton

Phew! Am now rather tearful after reading all the above - all the things I might have said have already said and more eloquently than I ever could. Didn't know Richard anywhere near as well as others but that was just the point of Richard - you didn't need to to know he was a bit different. Can't get there tomorrow but I'll be having a reflective moment at 3pm and raising glass to him when I get home. With love to Jean and Lisa.


07 Jan 09 - 05:26 PM (#2534493)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: Pistachio

A wonderful celebration, overseen by Oli Norman, and a fitting tribute to Richard.

From 'Mr Tambourine Man' to the close ... can't say much more.
'Goodbye old ship of mine'

H.x


08 Jan 09 - 06:35 AM (#2534926)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: Sir Roger de Beverley

Certainly Mr Tambourine Man worked as an opener. Listening again to such lines as "take me on a trip", "take me disappearing" "I'm ready to go anywhere, I'm ready for to fade" in that context added a whole new dimension to them.

Unfortunately I had to leave the wake before any music was played - how was it?

R


08 Jan 09 - 08:09 AM (#2534987)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: Linda Kelly

it was grand Roger.


08 Jan 09 - 08:48 AM (#2535018)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST,Gordon Tyrrall

It was an emotional and moving memorial to Richard, and I would guess there were at least 200 people there for the service - which shows how much love there was for him.Terribly sad for Jean and Lisa of course, but I hope they were at least comforted a little by that.It wasnt a glum experience at all though - not with the Laurel and Hardy theme tune as part of the order of service!


12 Jan 09 - 02:23 PM (#2538136)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST,Pete Fletcher

Jean has asked me to let everyone know that the collection at Richard's funeral raised £806.20
(where did the 20p come from? :-)
It will be divided equally between cancer researce UK and Dove House Hospice.
Dove House is our local hospice and does stirling work.


12 Jan 09 - 02:27 PM (#2538145)
Subject: RE: Obit: Richard Wastling Funeral Arrangements
From: GUEST,Pete Fletcher

Sorry that should read Cancer Research UK